Kera Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Hi i was wondering if i could get some advice. I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years, we have been engaged for 6 months this is a first time relationship for both of us. Latley we have been having problems in our relationship when he is on his laptop he will ignore me i don't mind sitting at home doing nothing but sometimes i do like to go for a walk going nowere in perticular and just talking but he hardly ever wants to go with me and it kinda hurts and we were taking care of his paralize sister for a bit and she was bothering me and picking on me about some stupid little thing and when i asked her to stop she did it more so when i asked him to tell her to lay off he said it was between me and her and did nothing about it. I tryed to talk to him about this and he just says that he don't know how to talk about stuff like this and keeps saying that he loves me and gets all lovey dovy for the rest of the day and then the next day it happens all over again. I started a job and i've been their for about a month and their is a guy their who i've become very interested in and he seems very interested in me, i found out that some of my friends are friends with him and we hung out and stareted talking and now i have a full blown crush on him and he told me a few days ago that he has a crush on me. So now i have no idea what to do? is my relationship with my boyfriend going no where? What should i do?
Exit Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Engaged at 23 years old and it's both of your first serious relationships? Not a good idea. How can you decide to get engaged to someone when you have nothing to compare it to. If all of this behavior only started recently then it sounds like he started making less effort once he got that ring on your finger. I was going to suggest sitting down with him and REALLY stating very clearly what your problems are, but then I remembered you have a crush on some new guy. What is this new guy going to offer you that you don't have in your relationship? The grass isn't always greener. You're asking us for advice but you haven't clearly stated what you want. Do you want things to work out? Do you want to be done with him? Don't bother asking him to try harder if you're still going to maintain this new crush you have.
Author Kera Posted June 21, 2009 Author Posted June 21, 2009 That is the thing i'm not sure what to do, I'm not sure if i should stay with him or persue this crush, this crush is a nice guy and his friends have told me that he talks about me alot but then i want to stay with my boyfriend that is why i'm asking for advice becasue i'm confused and it is all happening way to fast.
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