EmptyPromises Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 just wondering what guys look for in girlfriends...what attracts them to to a girl...whats ur ideal g/f...what makes want a girl...want to be with a girl...etc if you had the perfect g/f what would she be like?
WTRanger Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Me personally, I look for a girl who is comfortable with herself. She knows she doesn't have to make any major changes for me to like her and she knows that she's not going to try to change me in order for her to like me. She's comfortable in knowing that I'll think she's beautiful if she's in jeans, a hoodie and sneakers or of she's all dolled up to the hills for a special event. Same with me, she'll think no less of me if I haven't shaved in a few days because it's just one of them lazy weekends or if I'm in a tuxedo looking like James Bond. It's all about the awareness of one's self for me. If you are happy with yourself, then I'm happy with you. Everything other than that, it's just icing on the cake.
carhill Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 if you had the perfect g/f what would she be like? Imperfect and celebrating those imperfections rather than agonizing over them
boogieboy Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Yeah I can basically deal with almost any personality, but women who are so insecure that they need reasurring constantly, when it never helps, that I can do without. Low self esteem is annoying and something to be avoided.
loveslife Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 EmptyPromises, I think these guys have given some really good insight. It's really a matter of being comfortable and confident with yourself, which will make you real. And isn't that what we all want?
EddieN Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 What the other guys said, but also, for me personally: A girl who is very open-minded and maybe even a bit eccentric. This might sound weird, but I always thought it would be awesome to be in one of those relationships on the run from the law, like in that song "take the money and run." You know, where the guy and girl do everything together and make an awesome team at stuff. Haha, now I'm not saying the perfect gf will help me rob banks! But, someone who's always up for trying new things at an impulse. If you've ever seen the movie Yes Man, kinda like the couple in that.
collegekid491 Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 femine, but a little tomboyish nice, but a little naughty independent, but isn't to proud to sometimes confide in me down to earth, but a little spontaneous outspoken, but respectful Basically a little of everything in certain portions, quite literally its impossible for me to finger a specific trait when its collection or traits that separate a girl from 'the girl'
jonm07 Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 She would be sweet, caring, have an intelligent sense of humour. She would have to like kids and animals too, that's a big one. I like women who aren't afraid of expressing how they feel, in public or not. Cold/distant women aren't attractive to me. I'm something of a romantic, so women who have that trait are great
530 Guy Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 What the other guys said, but also, for me personally: A girl who is very open-minded and maybe even a bit eccentric. This might sound weird, but I always thought it would be awesome to be in one of those relationships on the run from the law, like in that song "take the money and run." You know, where the guy and girl do everything together and make an awesome team at stuff. Haha, now I'm not saying the perfect gf will help me rob banks! But, someone who's always up for trying new things at an impulse. If you've ever seen the movie Yes Man, kinda like the couple in that. Or how about like Mickey and Mallory Knox?
neowulf Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 just wondering what guys look for in girlfriends...what attracts them to to a girl...whats ur ideal g/f...what makes want a girl...want to be with a girl...etc if you had the perfect g/f what would she be like? Ok, perfect girlfriend... Someone I find physical attractive (this doesn't mean she need be a model) Someone intelligent, with ideas, interests and thoughts of her own. A great communicator. Someone who's really easy to talk with and a great listener. Someone warm and friendly, who's easy to be around (minimal drama). Someone patient and understanding. Someone who I can laugh with, who reminds me not to take myself or my life too seriously. Someone I can deeply and easily respect. Someone I can trust with my life if need be. Being each others best friend. Someone who admires and respects me and forgives me for the times when I'm less than perfect. *sigh* yeah... No wonder I'm still single...
Stark Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 Someone I can sit and talk to for hours/feel comfortable with and vice versa. Physical attraction is mandatory obviously. Someone who is honest and open and who I can also be honest with and vice versa. Someone who trusts me and I can trust them. Someone who is happy with my attention and does not need to seek attention off of other people. (I really dislike attention cravers.) Personality wise it depends, as people don't really reveal themselves. Someone who is happy with who they are, more likely laid back and down to earth, has got similar interests as I do, kinda tomboyish (but not in a sports way, more attitude). Can't really think exactly, but I believe these are main traits for someone I consider a very good relationship (perfect does not exist.)
Curious-One Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Personality is very important for me. I like a girl who is goal oriented. Who is serious about life and knows what she wants and is currently working on it. She needs to have her own life meaning she doesnt need to talk to me every single day over the phone or call me 2-3 times a day. She needs to be able to have fun and be able to hold a good conversation. She also needs to be nice and not an attention whore.
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