boogieboy Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 YOu don't think this makes a woman look a little, uhmmm, slutty? No, slutty is KISSING every guy at the bar and putting on too much makeup. You dont have to be in a backless dress at a bar, but you can case the bar and next time dress slightly better than the other women dress.
Trialbyfire Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 No offense guys but I doubt V.Vixen wants to be picked up... I like your idea of getting involved with the community, through volunteer work, etc. Meeting people in a friendly way, where if they like you, will garner more invites to house parties, etc. Those are the places where you're more likely to meet relationship style men. The more guys you meet, the more likely you're going to find someone who might be compatible.
boogieboy Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Well she did bring this up... Do you have any tips to help me attract more men that I don't already know So what makes you say this? No offense guys but I doubt V.Vixen wants to be picked up... . She doesnt have any friends yet, so she has to start somewhere, she can meet guys at the bars.
Author V.Vixen Posted June 20, 2009 Author Posted June 20, 2009 I really enjoy going out to the bars with friends, but have not had much luck with guys at bars being genuine. I know some are, but I am kind of looking more for dates/friends outside of the bar scene.. then later I can go out to the bar with those people.
boogieboy Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 I really enjoy going out to the bars with friends, but have not had much luck with guys at bars being genuine. I know some are, but I am kind of looking more for dates/friends outside of the bar scene.. then later I can go out to the bar with those people. Thats what I keep hearing about the guys in the bar scene. Well, you have alot of groundwork ahead of you if you need to make new friends...........
alphamale Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 YOu don't think this makes a woman look a little, uhmmm, slutty? no, just make up some story like your dog died and you're out drowning your sorrows...or that your cheatin' bf lied to you one too many times and you cut him loose so you're out gettin hammered. trust me, men in bars will believe anything
tinklebell Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 The funny part is that when I am comfortable with the people I am with I am SO outgoing and speak my mind a lot. It's so strange how knowing people changes that. My coworkers/friends never believe me when I say I am shy or have social anxiety. V.Vixen, when I saw your first thread, I thought it was me posting. This that you've written is so me it's not even funny. Anyway, I've asked a question here recently (not entirely the same but similar, I'd think) and I've received some helpful replies from carhill and the others. Hope it helps. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t190235/
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