Woggle Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 I have noticed something. Why is it that the same women who get all up in arms about porn and stripclubs are the ones who think it is perfectly okay for a woman to have an affair? They high five their friends who cheat and think it is a feminist statement of independence but if a man even looks at another woman he is scum. I really think it comes down to a misandrist victim complex. They see relationships in terms of women=victim and men=victimizer and they can twist anything around to fit that view. This is why men should look at as much porn as they want and go to a strip club if they wish. The hell with respecting her feelings because she sure as hell isn't respecting your feelings when she gets it on with the OM.
MusicChick24 Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 I have seen the women you are talking about...however not all women who don't like their men to go to strip clubs or watch porn are like this. I could never be with a man who goes to strip clubs just because I couldn't handle it...I would always think he's being unfaithful. But I don't think ANYONE cheating is ok, man or woman. If my best friend told me she cheated on her man I wouldn't support her. Luckily my man isn't in to strip clubs and I've invited him to watch porn with me because that alone doesn't bother me. He's never going to meet that model or get the chance to touch her and I know that if he did meet her and by some random incident she invited him to F*ck her brains out...he wouldn't do it...cause she's a pornstar. <3
lab_brat Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Aah, the hypocrisy of a mysogynist on a misandry rant... *For the record, i'm anti-cheating but pro-porn*
CarrieT Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 *For the record, i'm anti-cheating but pro-porn* Ummm.... me too.
missdependant Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 I've noticed that too! Chicks that get all depressed over porn piss me off! I'm sorry, they just do! They shouldn't be in relationships, in my opinion. I know I'm going to get reamed for saying that.. oh well. ;-)
39388 Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 They shouldn't be in relationships, in my opinion. I know I'm going to get reamed for saying that.. oh well. ;-) How about they should only be in relationships where the man shares the same view?
Sam Spade Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Well, the guys is a pig for watching porn, and even if he doesn't he's a latent pig anyway (plus he didn't take out the trash), so it's a given that he deserves to be cheated on for noe continually appreciating the wonderfulness he's been blessed with, duh . But overall, it is a good point to make that judgementalism and entitlement (and therefore self-righteousness) often go hand in hand, so I would not be surprised if it is actually true. Don'w sweat it, those kinds of hos will burn in hell, right next to the catholic priests getting it on with little boys:lmao:.
Jersey Shortie Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 I honestly don't know one woman that ecourages other women to cheat or hive-fives them for it. Let alone one woman that doesn't like porn and high-fives other women who cheat. MissIndependent, your statement doesn't make anymore sense then if a woman came on her and said something equally ridiculous as " I don't think people who look at porn should be in relationships". Both are opposite end spectrum opinions and both are ridiculous to make. You complain about women like myself, who don't agree with porn, and at the end of the day, you're no different then them or me. We both have a strong opinion on it.
westernxer Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Woggle, who are these women you're referring to? Maybe I need to get out more. LOL
Sam Spade Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Jenna Haze would never cheat on me - she's always there for me .
hoping2heal Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 I don't think it's a big deal that a bf looks at porn, or sexy magazines. It doesn't ordinarily bother me really. However, it is kind of hurtful when you're not getting that kind of attention from him , but strangers in a magazine or on a video do. So, I don't really the sense in getting mad about it unless your signifigant other, male or female is getting off to these other people, but not to you. Then I understand how it can lead to hurt feelings.
missdependant Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 How about they should only be in relationships where the man shares the same view? That's fine.. but I have yet to meet a man who doesn't EVER watch porn. I've heard guys say it online.. but personally? Never heard of it before.
Lizzie60 Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 I have noticed something. Why is it that the same women who get all up in arms about porn and stripclubs are the ones who think it is perfectly okay for a woman to have an affair? They high five their friends who cheat and think it is a feminist statement of independence but if a man even looks at another woman he is scum. I really think it comes down to a misandrist victim complex. They see relationships in terms of women=victim and men=victimizer and they can twist anything around to fit that view. This is why men should look at as much porn as they want and go to a strip club if they wish. The hell with respecting her feelings because she sure as hell isn't respecting your feelings when she gets it on with the OM. I am not sure who you're talking about.. I haven't seen it here (I don't spend as much time as I used to).. but whether it's a woman OR a man.. if I think they should cheat.. I will tell them that they should.. I don't necessarily 'high five' them.. but I see nothing wrong with a person who cheat if their partner is not doing their part of the 'deal'... Oh.. I see nothing wrong with porn.. I think I love it just as much as a man would.. the only time I see it 'wrong' is when it becomes an addiction...
39388 Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 That's fine.. but I have yet to meet a man who doesn't EVER watch porn. I've heard guys say it online.. but personally? Never heard of it before. I know at least a couple of males that despise porn and in my opinion judgemental about those who do watch porn. I'm sure it's somewhere way up there like 90% that watch porn, but that's not everybody. Of course SOME watch it but won't admit it. Certainly males watch it more than females.
WineCountry Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 I havent come across women who high five other women about affairs either. Not saying they arent out there; just that I havent come across them. I dont mind guys looking at porn, as I look at porn occassionaly. I also dont mind strip clubs, as long as the guy keeps his hands to himself and goes only like a few time a year. If, for some reason, I felt the guy spent an excessive amount of time viewing porn or wanting to go to strip clubs, then I would be concerned as i would think something is not healthy there, espescially if the guy has a girlfriend and therefore has a REAL accessible woman on hand.
blind_otter Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 That's fine.. but I have yet to meet a man who doesn't EVER watch porn. I've heard guys say it online.. but personally? Never heard of it before. I have. And I don't talk to men online, so the only experiences I have are IRL. Anyways, I actually did know a woman who wanted a high five for being the OW. I told her she was morally bankrupt and stopped being her friend.
westernxer Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Anyways, I actually did know a woman who wanted a high five for being the OW. I told her she was morally bankrupt and stopped being her friend. Good call.
c-riouz Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Aah, the hypocrisy of a mysogynist on a misandry rant... *For the record, i'm anti-cheating but pro-porn* I'm anti-cheating and anti-porn.
Lizzie60 Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 I'm anti-cheating and anti-porn. Oups.. I'm anti-cheating but pro-porn.
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