moman Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Went to the pool in my complex tonight, there were some 18 year old high school girls drunk and skinny dipping.....they were pretty cute and one girl comes over and jumps into my arms and tells me I'm a 30 year old **** and need to go meet some older women first, it's the first time I've ever had anyone mention I look close to 30, and second, is 30 really that old?
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 When you are 18 30 seems ancient. I wouldn't take offense. Now why are you hanging out with 18 year olds?
boogieboy Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 It depends on how you look, Im 37 but I look 25. I could have joined them............
Confusedalways Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Too old for what? I'm in my early 20's and yes, that's too old for me. Maybe these 18 year olds feel differently.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 It really depends on the girls' preferences. There are 18 yr olds who will date older guy/men, and there are the ones who think men in their 30's are the same age as their father. Why are you hitting on 18 yrs old? They will expect you to be a sugar daddy.
Thornton Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 30 is not old! I'm 30 and I still like to think I'm pretty hot A few weeks ago I got hit on by a 20 year old who thought I was his age, and when I came through the airport at Xmas with some booze they were going to take it away until I proved I was over 21. My friend who is 30 still regularly dates girls in their early 20s. When I was 18 my bf at the time was 29, and I didn't think he was old - I thought he was manly and experienced, and great in bed compared to guys my age. But I guess some other teenagers are less mature than I was and wouldn't consider dating an older guy. Take no notice of these kids; if they were mature enough to appreciate a real man they would have better manners.
eiithan Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 I don't think not preferring an older person means immaturity. There are times one must acknowledge that the young one and the old one are on different phases of life, with different goals and expectations. I'm in mid 20s, been approached by mid 30ish men who are ready to settle. No matter how attractive they are, I never responded for I just started living my life and know that I cannot provide for their needs.
sb129 Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 I hope 30 isn't old.... I am 31 and still (occasionally) get ID'd for buying wine. Which I find immensely flattering now...
Balthazar Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Went to the pool in my complex tonight, there were some 18 year old high school girls drunk and skinny dipping.....they were pretty cute and one girl comes over and jumps into my arms and tells me I'm a 30 year old **** and need to go meet some older women first, it's the first time I've ever had anyone mention I look close to 30, and second, is 30 really that old? Sorry Man, but you're clueless if you are asking such questions or just out to get a certain answer! As long as there isn't something physically wrong with you, as a 30 year old dude, you can get ANY woman you want , younger or older; First of all, most of the younger one(18-23) want a more mature man. The next group(24-29), are your "normal" target group, so no problem there... and Thirdly, many of the older ladies(30+) want a younger guy! It really doesn't get any better than the 30-35 age group for a man! Enjoy!
Meaplus3 Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 No! 30 is not old. Heck, I'd love to be 3o again. Embrace your age, own it and love it. Mea:)
Author moman Posted June 20, 2009 Author Posted June 20, 2009 Sorry Man, but you're clueless if you are asking such questions or just out to get a certain answer! As long as there isn't something physically wrong with you, as a 30 year old dude, you can get ANY woman you want , younger or older; First of all, most of the younger one(18-23) want a more mature man. The next group(24-29), are your "normal" target group, so no problem there... and Thirdly, many of the older ladies(30+) want a younger guy! It really doesn't get any better than the 30-35 age group for a man! Enjoy! Clueless? I think not. The girl who said that was very immature and drunk but it was the first time anyone had mentioned my age. It didn't help that I hadn't shaved for a couple days. To answer why I was out there, I go for a nightly swim at 11 PM. When I got to the pool, there were three girls swimming nude. We started up a conversation.
lab_brat Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 When I got to the pool, there were three girls swimming nude. We started up a conversation. *mental hi-five* I don't think 30 is too old, though it depends on the girl. Some 18 year old girls conceivably have fathers in their mid-late 30's, and i expect that could have some bearing on whether they consider 30s to be old? If you meet someone, get along really well and the chemistry is great, then go for it, regardless of age. I'm in mid-20's and though i have no particular age preference, generally i end up dating older men (35-45) as we just seem to click better.
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Sorry Man, but you're clueless if you are asking such questions or just out to get a certain answer! As long as there isn't something physically wrong with you, as a 30 year old dude, you can get ANY woman you want , younger or older; First of all, most of the younger one(18-23) want a more mature man. The next group(24-29), are your "normal" target group, so no problem there... and Thirdly, many of the older ladies(30+) want a younger guy! It really doesn't get any better than the 30-35 age group for a man! Enjoy! I agree- men are really ripe between 30 and 35. Old enough to know better, not old enough to be jaded. Not that all guys over 35 or jaded, but some of them are. So are some women. But you get my point.
westernxer Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 She tells you to meet older women as she jumps into your arms. Plus she's drunk and naked. I'd like to crash this party. LOL
Jersey Shortie Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 30 isn't old but as a girl who was once 18, when 30 year old men try to hang out with 18 year olds, it can come of kind of loserish. They might flirt with you but most girls kind of laught at guys like that, at least in my experience. Now if the girl was 25, that's different. It doesn't exactly scream stablility and maturity when a man that hsould be estalished in life is still living in highschool zone. Lately I have seen this thing on profiles with older guys saying things like 'Oh I am 37 years young". Which I think is really unattractive because it screams insecurity about their age. And I think sometimes, older men that hit on women that much younger then them, come off insecure for just that reason. Balhazer..you live in some weird fantasy world.
Sam Spade Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Sorry Man, but you're clueless if you are asking such questions or just out to get a certain answer! As long as there isn't something physically wrong with you, as a 30 year old dude, you can get ANY woman you want , younger or older; First of all, most of the younger one(18-23) want a more mature man. The next group(24-29), are your "normal" target group, so no problem there... and Thirdly, many of the older ladies(30+) want a younger guy! It really doesn't get any better than the 30-35 age group for a man! Enjoy! True, I'm 32 and while I can easily foresee at least 5 more years of easy fun, I'm cashing in right now due to low risk tolerance . I wouldn't be too upset if I ended late 30's and still single, but dating then would be a whole different process, one that I have no desire or patience to deal with. Plus I'd rather be done with the changing diapers part of life while I'm younger and more energetic . But, if my wife divorces me in my 40s, i'll only be hanging out with bimbos, that's for sure . I'll let them kiss my ring. That said, even now 18 year olds look a little too young plus many are so immature, that it's a sure boner killer.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Most 18 yr old girls will date 30 yrs old because their wallet is fatter, but you can't expect a serious relationship out of the majority. The few that lasts are a small exception, and even then you'll probably see the men winding up on the breakup forum asking why their younger gfs left them.
tinklebell Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Most 18 yr old girls will date 30 yrs old because their wallet is fatter, but you can't expect a serious relationship out of the majority. The few that lasts are a small exception, and even then you'll probably see the men winding up on the breakup forum asking why their younger gfs left them. Really? I know of a 40-year-old guy recently dating a 20-something still in school. I know love has no boundaries but I'm reassessing his character.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Really? I know of a 40-year-old guy recently dating a 20-something still in school. I know love has no boundaries but I'm reassessing his character. He could be the exception. But then again, they haven't been together long so the initial dating is more relaxed and fun. I'll give him a year or two, until she either finishes school, or he decides to start a family.
looking4 green grass Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 I'll be 30 in a few months and I certainly don't FEEL old. But I do feel "older" than I did at 18. I still look very young. Most people think I'm in my early 20's.
Balthazar Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Clueless? I think not. To answer why I was out there, I go for a nightly swim at 11 PM. When I got to the pool, there were three girls swimming nude. We started up a conversation. Then it's all good! Enjoy women(irrespective of ages) and have fun in life! And while your at it, bring a smile(and a bit more...) to the lives of those 18-year olds dude! CHeers,
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