Curious-One Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Hmmm let me start by saying that your self confidence is the biggest reason you are not getting laid. If you think you are ugly than all the girls will think you are ugly. If you look most girls love guy with confidence who are proud of themselves. You might not be brad pit but i am sure you can improve your appearance. I suggest you start working out, that will give you a better body but most importantly, it will increase your confidence. Next, as most have said ...kill the desperation! You are a 23 yo male about to graduate college. Not sure if you plan on going for masters but you are better than about 50% of males who dont have a degree. You might not have looks going for you but make sure you have other things going for you. You already have great education and hopefully you will land a good job that will pay good. I say work on your social skills ... that is very important. Being able to make a girl laugh and make her have fun is very important. Go out make friends, talk to girls that you are not even attracted to. Make friends with girls (something i am working on right now). I think having girls as friends will teach you how to talk to girls. Dont want to make this too long so i will end it there.
collegekid491 Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 lol heres some truths. get a hobby! sounds like you have way to much time on your hands. unlike us guys, the majority of girls don't like to be looked at as purely your means of 'getting off'. you are down on your appearance, you don't have to say your hot stuff but confidence in strong points girls see and is an attractive feature. to wrap it up, nice troll post, plz go under your bridge now
JohnnyBlaze Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 What criticisms have you received about your looks? One step is to fix them. Gain weight, lose weight, grow your hair longer, cut it short, whatever! It's not so much about your look specifically, but if you improve what you find to be your own shortcomings, your self-confidence will improve, and women will notice that (in a good way).
Maria_la_Guera Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 I don't know about other girls but I wouldn't sleep with a guy who was clearly just looking to sleep with a hot girl. Not that I'm super hot but even so. Now I'll just be repeating what everybody else said but girls don't like desperation. Nobody does I guess. I mean, you would like to sleep with someone because they want to sleep with you and not because they just really need to do it. By the way, have you tried exercising? Like seriously. I know guys who haven't had sex for some time or even are virgins and they say running helps.
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