totallyunsure Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Why dont women approch men anymore?? The reason i ask this is because my brother is even by guys standards good looking and we went to a club a few nights ago and he wanted to prove his point that women wont approach men.lots of women paid loads of attention but never moved-but then he went over to 4 seperate women and they all gave them their phone number!!!!!.is it something that just is or do the women always want the guy to approach them?????????
BCCA Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Anymore? Please let me know when this time was that women approached men. In my entire life, Ive known very few women to ever do this, even if they like a guy. Thats part of dating, guys do the approaching.
collegekid491 Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Not to say all women don't approach men, but i agree its pretty rare. Personally I don't care, I would rather be the one approaching because it gives me the ability to control the first impression. Must be tradition/chivalry, as I personally can see no other reason as to why its still widely assumed the man approach, the man propose, etc.
LovieDove24 Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 I recently asked a girl friend of mine to introduce me to one of her coworkers who was at the same bar as us. Does that count? Other than that the most I'll do is make consistant eye contact with a guy if I find him attractive...and throw in a smile occasionally. If he doesn't come over to talk, I figure its his loss. I'm not typically looking for anything when I'm out and about.
fallendisguise Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 It seems that 9 times out of 10 a man will be the one to approach. Why? Maybe us women are still old fashioned. Myself...hmmm I will initiate conversation and only when I feel confident will be the one to say "call me." I think a lot of it has to do with the chase factor. I'm not speaking on behalf of all women, just myself, but I don't like to be the "chaser." I am over analytical and will often wonder "Does this guy really like me or is he simply talking to me because I've made myself available and he's hoping to get laid?"
hoping2heal Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 We like Masculine men inherently, I wouldn't even say it's a matter of us not wanting to look desperate, we just don't want you to look like a weenie, and a man's man will approach the woman. It's what we're attracted too.
fallendisguise Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 I have to agree with hoping2heal. I, personally, like manly men...Men who can take charge. When a man doesn't take charge it's a turn off, at least IMO.
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