cen Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 My original post about the date is here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t192354/ So her and I were going back and forth a little bit via e-mail yesterday talking about a specific friend of ours. After a few exchanges I responded about our friend once more, and at the end thanked her for coming out the previous night and that is was fun. I casually asked if she'd be up for getting together for dessert or something next week, and then got no response and nothing since then. I know work is very busy for her this week, in particular yesterday & today and it's possible she didn't even see the end of that e-mail if she was rushing around. I found it weird to get no response at all, because she knew me before our date, and because i felt like the date went well & she seemed to enjoy herself as well. Of course I could be mis-reading that and maybe she isn't interested. So now I'm stuck a bit, should I wait a few days and then call after the weekend and ask once more, or just leave it alone since I will probably see her with our group of friends next Friday anyways? I don't want to push too hard, but I really would like to hang out once more one-on-one before the next group get together.
gopher Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Dude I don't think she's into you. I'd move on, but don't be surprised if she contacts you if give her NC. In any case, if she was interested, she would have jumped all over date #2.
Author cen Posted June 19, 2009 Author Posted June 19, 2009 Dude I don't think she's into you. I'd move on, but don't be surprised if she contacts you if give her NC. In any case, if she was interested, she would have jumped all over date #2. ..well I know she's somewhat interested, she is planning on coming to this bbq I'm having late next week which she brought up on her own (written in the original linked post), and she has already come once before to a similar get-together I had about a month ago. But I'm still going to take it easy for now and let some time pass.
BCCA Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 If she was interested, you would have gotten a 'sure, that sounds like fun' response pretty quickly. She completely ignored your request. Doesnt get any clearer than that: shes not interested. Her coming to a party with other people means nothing, she could do that for any number of reasons. She ignored your request to hang out 1 on 1 again, you have to let it go. Dont ask her out any more unless she mentions it. My guess is shes trying to politely blow you off.
lora22 Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Yeah, she's blowing you off. You have mutual friends, why wouldn't she want to hang out with them at your BBQ? She's not going for you, she's going for them.
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