beautiful2see Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Me and my ex boyfriend of 2 years broke up last year, and i was begging him to take me back for months, and he turned me down, and it hurt me so much, but i moved on, i finally ended up giving another guy a chance, everything was going good, but my ex comes back in the picture and starts telling me he misses me and wants me back, i told him i had a boyfriend but he didnt stop visiting me, and calling me, so for 2 weeks i was seeing my ex behind my boyfriends back, i didnt cheat, i started thinking i might still have feelings for him, i thought about breaking up wit my bf, but i couldnt, about 2 days ago, everything came out in the table and i told my bf everything!, my bf was mad but he didnt leave me, but now i dont know who to pick, everyone is telling me to stay wit my ex because his already done with school, his a fireman, and my boyfriend is still in school, and they are telling me that my ex is better for me, but i dont know if i should give my ex another chance, i have anger towards him, because what he did to me, my boyfriend and i are suppose to get married on the 11th on july, i picked my boyfriend but i want to know if i did the right choice? i also might be pregnant, im 21 years old. plz someone!
boogieboy Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Wow you got yourself in a hell of a pickle. If your ex broke up with you the first time, he WILL do it again. I honestly think he is contacting you while he is in a dry spell and once he finds someone else, he will dump you again. If you feel stronger for your ex than your current bf, then obviously you cant get married. You shouldnt get married at 21 anyway, especially as confused as you are. Worse than that, you cant get back with your ex if you plan on keeping this baby, he sure as hell will hold that baby against you in th future since it isnt his. You might want to consider a termination if you plan on leaving your current bf to avoid confrontaion in the future. I think you should stick with your current bf. But the real problem is, he now knows that youre not really in love with him, so you might lose him, or you need to take a break from both of them. You not being over the ex is going to color everything until you are completely over him. Need a woman who has been through this to chime in here............
Author beautiful2see Posted June 19, 2009 Author Posted June 19, 2009 I think you should stick with your current bf. But the real problem is, he now knows that youre not really in love with him, so you might lose him, or you need to take a break from both of them. You not being over the ex is going to color everything until you are completely over him. Need a woman who has been through this to chime in here............ I do love my boyfriend, its just that everyone is putting thoughts in my head saying he isnt good enough for me, we have one big problem and that is hsi sister, his sister doesnt like me, and shes alway butting in!, and me and her were almost going to get into it, but i said it wasnt worth it, and i dont want her to keep butting in our lives, and my ex i was begging him for months 2 take my back, when i thought we were bak 2gether he was like we aint back together we cant we argue to much and etc, that really hurt, thats when i forgot about him for good, till he came back 3 weeks ago.
SoulSearch_CO Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Your ex seems to like chasing until he's caught you - then he loses interest. It sounds to me like you have a good, stable thing going with your current BF. So in your mind, I'm sure that equals boring. That's too bad. If you crave dysfunction, then go ahead and choose your ex. So what if he's got his schooling done - how is he in a relationship? That's what matters. There are a great many men that have GREAT careers and are ****ty husbands. For a second, pretend they are on a level playing field as far as career/school goes. Who do you choose just based on your RELATIONSHIP?
BUENG1 Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Me and my ex boyfriend of 2 years broke up last year, and i was begging him to take me back for months, and he turned me down, and it hurt me so much, but i moved on, i finally ended up giving another guy a chance, everything was going good, but my ex comes back in the picture and starts telling me he misses me and wants me back, i told him i had a boyfriend but he didnt stop visiting me, and calling me, so for 2 weeks i was seeing my ex behind my boyfriends back, i didnt cheat, i started thinking i might still have feelings for him, i thought about breaking up wit my bf, but i couldnt, about 2 days ago, everything came out in the table and i told my bf everything!, my bf was mad but he didnt leave me, but now i dont know who to pick, everyone is telling me to stay wit my ex because his already done with school, his a fireman, and my boyfriend is still in school, and they are telling me that my ex is better for me, but i dont know if i should give my ex another chance, i have anger towards him, because what he did to me, my boyfriend and i are suppose to get married on the 11th on july, i picked my boyfriend but i want to know if i did the right choice? i also might be pregnant, im 21 years old. plz someone! The 11th of July as in 3 weeks or 2010?? I think you should postpone your wedding....
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