Samson12 Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 I've often been curious what the protocol is for telling some one you're dating (especially whom you plan on sleeping with) that you have an STD. I do not, but the apprehension of sleeping with a girl who does keeps me pretty sidelined. Do most people tell the other person up front? How much trust should you have that they aren't keeping it from you?
AlektraClementine Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Best way to settle it is to ask for recent "test scores". All folks, especially if single and playing the field should get tested once a year or after any additional partners. Girls do this way more than guys because they HAVE to see the girlie doc once a year. Just ask. And require it. Go get tested yourself so that you have documentation to back it up, too.
BUENG1 Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 I've often been curious what the protocol is for telling some one you're dating (especially whom you plan on sleeping with) that you have an STD. I do not, but the apprehension of sleeping with a girl who does keeps me pretty sidelined. Do most people tell the other person up front? How much trust should you have that they aren't keeping it from you? I think the best way to go about it is if your going to sleep with someone to go a clinic together and get tested, assuming you are bf and gf.
Author Samson12 Posted June 20, 2009 Author Posted June 20, 2009 I've only ever slept with two girls and I know I'm clean. I'm just naturally untrusting of other people. I prefer to have sex in a committed relationship only. But lately women just want me for sex and dating but not committment. Call me different....
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