euroguy1212 Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 So I never did contact my ex, but she told her friend today she finds the new guy (her "friend's" best friend) to be sexier, that the reason she never had any problems with dating before and dating me was because she didn't find me attractive and she bets I'm still reading her stuff. And I was. In a moment of weakness. Although I wouldn't tell her that. She also asked the new guy out. On her own instead of through her friend. Today, she finally changed her MySpace location to her hometown, whereas before it said she was "Alone" as her location. And as some people know, she just told my mom yesterday to say she missed me. Was it because my mom or I didn't respond? Its only been one day and my ex is impatient. I hate this. I'm doing well and know I should start moving on at this point, but its hard when you've invested so much time, love and *coughs* money into a one year relationship. She probably won't be thinking about me much at all this weekend, since apparently she's going to look at a new car with her brother. I was hoping that would make her miss me more, but there's a part of me that wonders if I was too late. :/
BCCA Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Ok, here comes some tough love. You need to let this girl go, completely. Dont e-stalk her myspace page, talk about her, ask friends what shes doing, or waste any more energy. Shes not only not interested, shes asking another guy out. Thats a pretty clear message that shes not thinking about you in a romantic way at all. You have to stop looking for silver linings, and hoping against hope. Youre just wasting your time and making yourself miserable. Avoid her, and anything related to her, like the plague. I mean it. I dont even want to tell you how much my ex costed me over 5 years, but you need to consider that lost, along with your other investments. It happens, thats just how relationships are. This one is over though, and you need to start acting accordingly.
Surfer Dude Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Block her, forget her and go meet some new girls. I don't know this chick and I won't pass any judgments, but it's quite obvious that you're obsessed with her and the whole situation is making you miserable. There's 3 billion women in the world and this one isn't a unique and special delicate flower. Just forget her and move on. Are you a man or a pussy? Dude, cowboy up!
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