nature Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 What do I do? Ex contacting me You may remember my story...here is my old thread from back in Feb or sometime then [COLOR=#660000]http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t177753/[/COLOR] My ex and I had been engaged. He went haywire last spring, broke up with me, started running around like he was 19 yrs old with his buddies who were all coming out of broken marriages....devestated me....took off to Mexico at Xmas for 3 months....his friends all flew down to meet him....hurt me so bad....he was sending me emails from there...I ignored them. Ran into him a month ago. He came up to me, hugged me, started saying "why am I such an idiot...you look beautiful...I've missed you so bad...Mexico wasn't great...blah blah...asking me a million questions". I was out with girlfriends, was polite and friendly, but left his side and went back to my girlfriends to continue having fun...he sat and stared at me the whole night. Then he emailed me a week later, just a friendly email. Asking me a zillion questions. Then he phoned me drunk out of his mind a week later telling me he thinks about me every second of every day....apologizing profusely for how he treated me....went on and on about how much he misses me and loves me...I was nice and kind of laughed, but didn't "give him anything" to go by. He was drunk. I was sober. Two nights ago he showed up at my house at 10PM. Said he wanted to just stop by for 5 min and say hi. It kind of scared me because i wasn't expecting it. I was in the backyard because it's hot out, and suddenly he's looknig over the fence saying hi. He sat at my house for two hours. Talked and talked about "nothing", asked me a million questions, he looked happy and upbeat....told me he was living in a new condo and had signed a one year lease....etc. Finally after 2 hours I had to ask him to leave becaseu it was midnight. I just don't get it all???? I'm so messed up right now. I still love him, but I'm a strong girl and am not going to take any BS. I'm pissed at him. I've just acted friendly and given him the old, "it's so great we can be friends now" line...as in, I'm not giving in to him. Argh. Help
boogieboy Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 What are you doing? You posted this in the breakups forum already.
Author nature Posted June 19, 2009 Author Posted June 19, 2009 Sorry, I didn't know where to post it. I was messed up at the time. I thought maybe different people read different areas of LS. I don't know how to delete this thread. Ignore
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