jessicasilver Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 my ex broke up with me 4 months ago because he wasnt ready for a relationship and he wanted to enjoy himself, it broke my heart as he was the first guy i ever loved! we lost contact for some time until recently, we have been friends for a month, we were out shopping today and every time he walked past a shop he would look at a girl that worked inside, he was holding on to me then he let go and said his going to ask the girl ''where shes from because shes hot!'' he tried to drag me with him but i told him to go do it himself while i waited for him outside like an idiot... for them 5 minutes my heart broke in to pieces i felt like crying! he then came back with a smile on his face and started telling me how it went, he tried to put his arm round me but i moved it off! i told him that what he did was so disrespectful and i no longer wanted to be friends with him.. we went back to the car and he kept talking but i ignored him! i told him to never ring me or text me again and it was for the best...also that if he wasnt ready for a relationship then i couldnt be his friend! he just broke down in tears, which hurt me... he said he didnt want to lose me and he loved me and the fact that his about to lose me made him realise that he wants me back.... he asked me out... im just thinking is he only wanting me back now because i want nothing to do with him????? i dont know what to do..... my heart still loves him but my minds telling me not to fall for it again!
boogieboy Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Well, if you get back with him in this instance, is your mind ready to deal with the fallout if he breaks up with you again?
Exit Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Don't fall for it. 5 minutes earlier he was hitting on someone else. Be strong and leave him behind to flirt all he wants.
Author jessicasilver Posted June 19, 2009 Author Posted June 19, 2009 i dont even know if i want him back anymore... i just dont understand why it took him so long to realise how much i loved him i tried everything to get him back and now after what he did i dont want him, his being so sweet to me! why couldnt he do this before
boogieboy Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 i dont even know if i want him back anymore... i just dont understand why it took him so long to realise how much i loved him i tried everything to get him back and now after what he did i dont want him, his being so sweet to me! why couldnt he do this before Well hopefully you will cut him off. But prepare for him to come after you saying all the things you want to hear. (for sex of course)
Jester268 Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 He's being sweet to you because he's trying to game you. Plain and simple.It's a standard I want what I can't have scenario. Go out and date other men. Let him go out and date other women. If after a good amount of time you two meet up again and you still feel a connection then maybe give it another chance.
contax Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 He is trying to flirt with others to make you jealous...like look I'm checking other girls maybee she (you) will like me more...but it's rude..and immature. You deserve better than that girl! A guy that will give all his attention to you...holding you..walking down that same street and buying you ice cream or something... Your better than him. You'll be okay.
Author jessicasilver Posted June 19, 2009 Author Posted June 19, 2009 i agreed to get back with him but now i feel like ive made a big mistake, his hurt me so much before, i put up with so much during the break up, he told me he couldnt see me when i asked him out because he was busy and i found out he went and saw another girl who he kissed! ive tried to win him back so much that i forgot what really matters in life and now that im in the drivers **** i feel like ive wasted my time! how do i end it with him, what do i say... it just doesnt feel right anymore???
cabarc1 Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 You be honest and tell him just that.....that "it doesn't feel right anymore". You two just need to go ur seperate ways for a good while and then if one day you meet up again, maybe it will feel right. Till then he needs to grow up!! What a freaking jerk of him for doing that to you!! He needs to suffer it badly now, don't u dare let him make you feel like ur making a mistake. You seriously deserve better! And there is better than that out there, trust me!
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