Jester268 Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 About 3 weeks ago the girl I was dating left me for another man. (I have a thread on it in the breakup forum) She has been seeing this guy and it has been hard on me, but I'm ready to move on. Unfortunately I still have a lease in the apartment with my ex-girlfriend. I am actively trying to get out of this lease and get away from my ex, but it is proving to be difficult. Anyway I met a girl in the same complex as me a while back when we were both waiting for a bus to take us to the University we both attend. We just talked normally and I kept things platonic because I was dating my ex-girlfriend at the time. I recently saw her again and I got her number, but I'm unsure if it would be wise to start something with her. She's cute and we have the same sense of humor. I called her the other night, but I guess she was busy and didn't answer. I happened to see her around the next day and she indicated that she still wanted me to call her. The problem is that I still live with my ex-girlfriend. I'm not sure if I should start something with this girl because of that fact. I want to move on, but I'm afraid that as soon as this girl finds out I'm living with my ex she'll run off and I'll mess up a friendship/relationship that could have some potential What should I do ?
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Look you obviously need time to heal and still living with your ex is definitely not going to help. Look why don't you maintain some friendship with this girl but don't step into another relationship or else she most likely will become the rebound. Just stay cool, call her and chat. Just because she wants you to call her doesn't mean she automatically is interested in you and her next bf. Take things nice and steady. Hope this helps
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