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I guess she's quiet? I don't know.


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First of, I'm a bisexual girl. So I'm not sure if it would be different for me in this case. On to the story.

 

She's told me she's quiet, but her body language just said "I'm not interested." We spent most of Saturday together. I did meet up with some other girl that day to which she asked if I wanted her to leave so things wouldn't be awkward between me and the girl. I told her it was ok, and I would handle it. No problem.

 

So I don't now. I felt she was always in a hurry to get to one place or another whereas I just wanted to wonder around and be in the moment. I knew we had the whole day, and I just enjoyed being with her. I didn't really care about where we were or what we were doing or were about to do next.

 

So I don't know why she was constantly in a hurry. Maybe that's just her or she just wanted to leave. After 7 hrs. together, she left, and I figured we would probably never see each other again, although I told her to keep in touch. I didn't want to burn any bridges, since our GLBT community can be small sometimes.

 

Anyway, I had told her to do something the next day, and she did it to my surprise -- weird. She constantly emails me, although her email sounds really indifferent. My ego would like to say maybe the girl just can't write, but the reality is probably that she doesn't care to keep in touch with me much.

 

Well, she asked me out last night and here I am on here asking for any insights you guys may have. She has a whole day planned out. If you didn't like someone, why would you want to spend so much time with them? A cup of tea for 15 mins. would do to "keep in touch."

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Sounds like mixed signals. Perhaps she's uncomfortable expressing herself ? often times we put up walls not because we want to keep people out, but because we want someone to care enough to knock them down.

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