Hallie Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 I became aquainted with this guy, he would flirt with me, he would tell me I was pretty, that he liked me, especially when he had had a drink but not so much when he was sober, we would be in a group and he would make sure all the attention was on me, I'm a bit of shy person and I would get so embarrassed. Admitedly, I was very attracted to him but I thought he just wanted a lay. My thoughts about him at the beginning where that he was a bit of a ladies man, I would laugh and say how many girls have you said that to? Then the more. I got to know him the more I began to realise that my first impressions were wrong. My feelings for him grew strong over the months and then one night he told me he cared about me, another night we were both quite drunk and I told him how I felt about him, he said he felt the same and we kissed for the first time. I invited him to my room and he declined, he said I was drunk and he couldn't do that to me even though he wanted to. I knew what I was doing even though I was under the influence. The next day I was kind of embarrassed that he had turned me down and I apologised if I made him feel uncomfortable or anything, he told me not to worry about it. The next day he left without telling me and I haven't seen him since. I have cried for a whole week. We are both college age. I don't understand, why did he tell me he liked me all year if he was lying? Why did he even kiss me? Should I just forget about him? Sorry my first post is such a silly one.
hey_beautiful Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 I don't think he was lying to you, but maybe he just became disinterested? There are so many possibilities, so who knows what he was truly thinking. He kissed you, but you were drunk. Maybe he does like you as a friend, and he wasn't quite ready to progress to the next level while actually sober. He could be interested in other people as well. I think it's a "he's just not that into you situation", and you probably should move on. If this was two days ago, then maybe not...but any longer than a week, and I'd say you probably should.
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