Sam Cooke Fan Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 know those times when you're going to meet new people, do things for 2 hours that won't aren't really conducive to talking and probably never see them again? it was some volunteer work. yeah, i could tell she liked me, i liked her, she was cute, she came with her sister, and then at the end what do i do? thinking: just ask her, ask her, ask her, ask her # would it be weird? yeah it'd be creepy right it'll be creepy don't but you won't see her again so what have you got to lose? "nice meeting you. maybe i'll run into you again in one of these things." i get in my car and drive. i hate it i let her get away. and it'd be stupid if i chased/stalked her via online. i'm going to leave it to chance? to CHANCE? hate it when i do this. any suggestions? i was nervous for some reason, but i had good feedback, she was looking into my eyes the whole time and looking straight back at me. oh geeze. just venting. ideas? is it creepy for a guy to a girl he barely knows and may never see again to just ask her # and see if she's interested? complication was her elder sis was there...argh sry again just venting...but also seeking thoughts
collegekid491 Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 is it creepy for a guy to a girl he barely knows and may never see again to just ask her # and see if she's interested? Um... how old are you? Once your out of high school, this is the only way your gonna be dating anyone other then your hand. In my experience, despite girls saying chivalry is dead, girls like a guy to take initiative because more often then not they feel their flirty signals are practically yelling "I will say yes". I don't know why you didn't ask, but next time remember this post and just get rid of these thoughts by getting an answer from the girl herself.
torranceshipman Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 You sound so cute - volunteering and having this crush goin' on....did any of you r contacts or friends from the volunteering know her? Maybe she's on a friends' FB contact list or something? In which case, nothing wrong with a casual 'weren't you at that volunteering thing' msg...good luck!
cyril's fan Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 Once your out of high school, this is the only way your gonna be dating anyone other then your hand. I wish more guys would understand this logic. In my experience, despite girls saying chivalry is dead, girls like a guy to take initiative because more often then not they feel their flirty signals are practically yelling "I will say yes". More right than not. OP, are you able to meet this girl again? If so, I hope you muster up the courage and remember to ask for her number!
Jester268 Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 It isn't creepy it is normal. You think it is creepy because you don't want to ask because of your natural fears of rejection (all people have this). The best way to get over this is to just face it head on and do it. At first you will probably be awkward but this is only temporary. It's a phase you have to go through to learn. There will be many times you will get rejected, but there will also be times when you will have successes. And the successes are more than worth it. Good luck.
mogul Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 is it creepy for a guy to a girl he barely knows and may never see again to just ask her # and see if she's interested? No, its called DATING. If you had good rapport with her and seemed to be noticing each other, she is hinting you should ASK for her number.
BobSacamento Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 Reminds me of when Jerry got the girls number off the AIDs walk list. lol. Dude I'd totally Facebook message her. The worst that could happen is you get rejected by a total stranger. Next time just ask. It's so easy for girls to give out a fake number there's no reason not to.
Recommended Posts