ryanrabl Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 My ex gf of 2 years left me for another some frat boy at her college (we were LDR).Anyways,she finds out today i got a tattoo and that i bought a motorcycle.Now,i am not this "badass biker" but i always loved and had a bike.Prior to meeting her, i had a motorcycle and loved the thing to death..but she felt so uncomfortable about me riding,so i sold it to make her happy.When she dumped me, i needed to move on and find things that made me happy ...which led me to buy a new motorcycle! 2 days ago i got a tattoo on my back honoring my parents who i cherish more than anything in this world-they are the only ones that will be there with me forever. Anyways,my ex finds out that i bought a bike and i got tatted up and flips out!She is just floored and says that i am growing up into a man and is at a loss for words.She was upset at me for buying my bike because she is so scared that i will injure myself/die..i can honestly tell that she is scared about me hurting myself at one point holding back tears.Regarding my tattoo,she was just shocked and upset at the way i have been spontaneously living my life since we have broken up.She asked me "have you closed the door on us ever getting back together so much that you are living a life that is straying away from the guy i used to know?"My decisions just floored her and she was upset,but my question is why?Why does she get upset at me for my daredevil antics?why does she care or scared of me having a motorcycle again?Why does she hate the fact/yell at me for skydiving? I attend UCLA and am graduating soon...this girl was my everything,i was engaged to her,i pushed her in school and was extremely faithful to her.This has been the hardest 3 months ever and i have been trying to move on.I love her so much,but i know well never be together again..i have accepted that.
hoping2heal Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 Girlfriend needs to take a look outside and see that the world doesn't revolve around her. SHE breaks up with you, for another man no less.. and then she has the guts to accuse you of turning into some guy she doesn't know, yada yada yada? If these things make you happy, ENJOY them, go for them, you might think you love her now, but I'll tell you what I'm willing to bet ten years down the road of stifling all your pleasures out of life because she doesn't like em? You'll be very resentful of her. Good for you that you're having fun again. Any girl who will dump you for another man, is not worth your time.
quankanne Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 she's yanking your chain. Just because she wants to see if she still has a hold on you. And frankly, that sucks. She needs to leave you alone, she made her choice and you should be free to make yours. love her, yes. Put up with bullshxt like this? Oh hell NO! tell her she gave up all her rights and privileges when she walked out of the relationship, and not to worry her little self with what you do.
NopeNah Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 Controlling, bitch! Do what you want , when you want, and who you want! She's of NO concern of yours and neither is her opinion of what you're doing!
CaliGuy Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 She what happens when you live a life that makes you happy and do not live life to make OTHERS happy? Continue on your track. Don't let her detur you. Have fun, enjoy life. If she chooses to not be a part of that, it's no loss to you.
TaraMaiden Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 Ryan, I have 9 tattoos AND I love motorbikes! Could you give me a ride?? (I'm also middle-aged and living in the UK, but don't let a mere trifle stand in the way of a good burn-up!) Ever heard of the Isle of Man TT races? Boy, they get my blood going!
mark982 Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 ryan, you got to live live on your terms, i sure wouldn't let some girl who screwed you over run your life.tell her thank you for her consern,and no i have no thought of us getting back together.
Woggle Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 You aren't wallowing in self loathing and crying over her so of course she doesn't like it. She had her chance and she threw it away so live your life and be happy.
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