b3nx Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 I am 22 year old male who worrys far too much!!! But on a main point, i met this girl we are now a couple after 2 months of dating. We are amazing together, we are more best mates than a couple! She is at uni becoming a school teacher. This week she has been training in the class room and she comes home exhausted every night. We spoke on the phone last night she was really talkative then she started sounded really tired. She asked what i did today and i said i had to help a mate move into this new house. She asked what his name was and i stuttered because my mum walked past and startled me. I was worried that she thought/thinks that i was lying. She knows i am not the kind of type to lie because i do a lot of things to prove my loyality. This seems like a very immature thing to worry about am i right?
Sweetcheripie Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 Not a big deal - I'm sure she knew you were not lying or trying to cover up a lie.
ON MY OWN Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 Not a big deal - I'm sure she knew you were not lying or trying to cover up a lie. I agree w Sweetcheripie, not a big deal. I can see that your just wanting to be a good person, and if you truly are you have nothing to worry about. Women have sharp intuition. She will know you are, it will come across in all the other things you say and do.
carhill Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 A bit of fatherly advice: 1. You'll never know what's in a woman's mind or heart other than what she shares with you. Pay attention to what she shares, in actions and words. Worry about the unknown will only serve to weaken you. 2. Do what *you* do; what comes naturally. The right woman for you will see such actions as positives. If you stutter when startled, like when mum surprised you, that's you. Accept that. It's OK.
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