C-i-C-u Posted August 25, 2009 Posted August 25, 2009 I'm 43 and single. I've been in two long term relationships starting at the age of 27, second relationship ended at age of 38. Been single for 5 years now. I don't think it's bad thing, however, I don't think I want to be single forever. BUT if it turns out that way I think I'll be okay with it. So I guess it just depends on you, and how you deal with it. You are a male, you can go to Amsterdam or Frankfurt and have the sex for a price, a GOOD price if you negotiate before entering. So you don't have to be in a relationship for it. I guess one of the good things, Europeans have that we don't, is access to sex with various different women. That helps keep the crime down, and it helps people get into serious relationships and not what we are seeing now.
LucreziaBorgia Posted August 25, 2009 Posted August 25, 2009 I missed this thread when it was first posted! I am in the same exact boat. The only thing I can seem to get is FWB, and even that has become impossible. If there is a way to be happy and single when you don't want to be I'd sure like to know how it is possible.
Absolutely Curtains Posted August 26, 2009 Posted August 26, 2009 I have been looking for love my whole life (I am 41 years old). Over the years, I have found a few guys who wanted to have sex a few times or guys who would stick around in a relationship if I paid for all their bills. But, I can't find anyone who loves me I have a two friends who are truly happily single, but neither one seemed that interested in dating or relationships ever. People advise me to just accept that I am going to be always single and to work on being happily single. Can you be happily single if you don't want to be single? Is this something you can grow into? Things work out best for those who make the best of how things work out.
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