contax Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 My ex's Mom cheated on her husband of 17 years maybee 4 times with co-workers. He broke down (My ex saw this and swear she would never do it to anyone...then she left me for another guy). The Mom hooked up with a guy from work for 5 years - the whole time gaining a serious alchochol problem. That guy left her after 5 years (compare that to 17 years) she now does cocaine. She has a great job and condo....but was out of work due to emotional pain for 2 weeks. She had serious deppression. She said she was happier when she was in the family. She is over 40 and goes to clubs young people go to and does drugs...it's really embaressing. Story from LS Nature Years ago my sister dumped her long term boyfriend. They had been together for 4 yrs. He was devestated. She was cold as ice. He begged, cried, pleaded, tried to get her back. She would have none of that. Within a week she had a new boyfriend, while her ex cried and was depressed for nearly a year. Well 3 yrs after she dumped him, she was travelling thru Europe with another new boyfriend, and suddenly she realized she missed her first ex. "the one" she had coldly dumped. She therefore, dumped her current boyfriend while in Europe, flew back early, tried to get back with her ex that she had hurt, and he would have none of it. He had moved on. She was a mess. A mess for nearly two years trying to get back wtih him. She was now the one crying, devestated and depressed for two years. But no matter what she tried, he was over her. to this day, 10 years later, she still regrets having broken up with him in the first place, and still says she will always love him. She has a hard time talking about him without crying, still to this day. She was young, 22. They had been together since they were 18. He was seriously the PERFECT boyfriend. And I don't believe in "perfect", but he really was. So she didn't know any better at the time. She thought "the grass was greener" out there. She realized it wasn't. And to this day, she still realizes it. She gave up a good one. One of the best. He is now happily married, with 4 beautiful kids, an amazing house, etc. I feel better hearing this in a way. It could be wrong and hindering my own growth. In the end I want to wich them peace and love....I want to heal my mind first.
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