pinkprincess85 Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 I am just after some advice, I was hurt badly when I was younger and now I find hard to trust me husband. I hate being like this. It seems like vicious circle all time. I want attention he wont give to me as I moan at him an make him unhappy. However now I am about to loose him and I don't want him to go. I need help sorting this out, I want to change, I don't want to keep messing up our marriage when I love him so much. If some could give me some advice be grateful thank you.
Ronni_W Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 Princess, Congrats! You are aware that it is not really your husband/current relationship that is triggering you...a lot of people just stay blaming and resenting others instead of looking at themselves. I recently found a good on-line resource to help heal our deeper crap ("core wounds") -- InnerBonding.com. There is a free '6 steps of inner bonding' eCourse that you can sign-up for. Note of caution: The material is spiritual (not religious) based -- it won't be for everybody. There are also good relationship and personal development articles, but you have to become a member. On the sign-up form, there is a "sign up as free member" option below the two paid-for options. Other articles, also spiritual-based: http://spiritlibrary.com/pamela-kribbe/dealing-with-emotions -- and -- http://spiritlibrary.com/pamela-kribbe/from-ego-to-heart-part-1 Wishing you deep and permanent healing.
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