lovely_lady77 Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 Hi everyone! I'm new here and had a question for everyone out there: Ladies---if you are trying to get to know a guy for dating and possibly more, what would you think if you went on his myspace/facebook page and found out that his ex was still his #1 friend (or the ex was off the top friends list and then randomly appeared again as #1) and they are clearly still communicating with each other and it had been quite some time since they have broken up? (they were together for a long time...) Would that be an indication that he still possibly has romantic feelings towards her? Men-I would love to hear your opinion on this as well. What would you think if you were talking to a girl and she still had her ex in that top spot? It was just a topic my friends and I were discussing recently!
Ronni_W Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 Women used to have a seriously difficult time with the fact that my ex-husband and I were still very close. It didn't seem to bother the men who wanted to date me, though. But neither of us played out our relationships on FaceBook, and even then I don't think we would have listed each other as our "#1 friend". How OLD are the people who are doing that? Maybe it's just a signal of their level of "relationship maturity"?
dressing up Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 I'm unlikely to take any action, unless the guy pursues me. I prefer a stress- and drama-free life, unless I realize at some point after being pursued that I can't do without this guy. I know a guy with his ex as his no. 1 friend (is there even such a function on fb?) may not have any more romantic liasons with the ex but I'd just prefer not to go into it, unless, as I said, I have a humungous crush on this guy or if he pursued me to the hills. No offense to anyone who does but I'm also not into a guy, who plays out his relationships on fb.
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