Ilovehim Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 I just can't forget him. It feels like he will be in my memory forever. I live my life everyday and don't contact him. In other words i'm okay, i'm not in pain. He has another girlfriend and is very much in love with her, I have become emotinally detached so I don't really care about that BUT I just can't forget how we were and how we became...Plus, I have become so emotianlly unavailable, not on purpose but for some reason I can't seem to have strong feelings for anyone..it doesn't even go through the "attraction/flirting" stage...I'm enjoying being single and honestly a relationship is the last thing on my mind...I just HATE that my ex is not "just anybody" to me...He still holds a special place in my heart and I hate it...I dont think Im in love with him anymore because it has been almost YEAR but I just cant forget him and I have days where this really gets me sad... it has been almost a year...
Mike B. Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 It will get better. I would be telling a lie if I told you that it will completely go away someday for sure but it will fade more and more as time go on. You may just occasionally get that sad dull feeling but it will probably last for only a few seconds and then you will go back to whatever you are doing and think nothing of it for the rest of the day or week. Sometimes, those who were really special to us stay with us somehow in some small way. It just means you are human. This is what separates us from animals.
LisaUk Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 I wish there were some words of comfort I could offer you, but I'm going through my first ever break up, just 3 months in. If it helps, you are not alone in your feelings, there are lots of us out there going through the same emotions. Will be thinking of you!
Dmoney28 Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 im kind of in a similar situation. After the break up of a 4 year relationship, i still care for her very much....10 months later. Sometimes i feel like a obsessed wierdo, other times i feel like i should be over it by now....but i'm not. I dont cry anymore, and we havent had contact in 2 months. Is just when you have a real connection with someone over so many years, its just hard to stop thinking about them, the scarry thing is i dont want to forget her. Eventually the memories will fade i guess, But you like me have to be strong, and find a way through this
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