heynowwww Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 Hey everyone, I was here suffering through a break up a while back and felt pretty good after a year no contact. The ex is engaged to be married soon, Im not sure when but I think sometime this summer. This is to a man who she cheated on with me. I know I should feel as though I dodged a bullet because she cheated on me and has cheated on her fiance, but I cant help feel depressed. My life hasnt been the same since she has been gone and now I feel like I have had a major setback. She was my first and only real love and I feel like the innocence of that love will never be had again. Right now all these crazy thought are going through my head from contacting her to tell her how I feel or contacting her sister for advice. Or just letting it go and trying to get on with my life. I just dont want to have any regrets. Thanks and regards.
NopeNah Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 There's nothing innocent about a cheater! She's TRASH and should be thrown away as such! Move on and let her new guy have to dispose of the trash when his time'(s) come! She's of NO concern of yours anymore.
Author heynowwww Posted June 17, 2009 Author Posted June 17, 2009 thanks for the reply. I know she is his problem now. I went to my boys house and cleared my mind. I will not contact her. Now I can officially close this chapter, should have a long time ago. Hurts but I will get by.
D-Lish Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 My life hasnt been the same since she has been gone and now I feel like I have had a major setback. She was my first and only real love and I feel like the innocence of that love will never be had again. Right now all these crazy thought are going through my head from contacting her to tell her how I feel or contacting her sister for advice. Or just letting it go and trying to get on with my life. I just dont want to have any regrets. Thanks and regards. Regardless of how worked up you feel- don't do any contacting, okay? Not to her, or her sister... It won't do any good, and down the road you'll kick yourself, trust me. In many ways you won't experience love like this again. The first time you love and get burned by it, well, it does change how you think about love. You always go into it the first time with an open heart and closed eyes- the trick is to go into it the next time with an open heart and open eyes.
Author heynowwww Posted June 17, 2009 Author Posted June 17, 2009 thanks for the reply. I cannot sleep over this and feel sick to my stomach.Unfortunately I will just have to let time take care of these feelings and hope for the best.
NopeNah Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 You're completely correct! That's all you can do, is get over it! Nothing more, nothing less. It's your only option.. I am sorry that you have to go thru this..again. It's for the best though with the cheating thing... know that!
Author heynowwww Posted June 17, 2009 Author Posted June 17, 2009 thank you again for your reply. I will take these feeling in accept them and move on. I am truly lucky to be out of that situation.
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