slutacious Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 my boyfriend of the last 18 months asked if i wanted him to move out. I already suspect he is cheating, because in 2 weeks we have had sex twice, instead of the normal twice a day. Any advice would be appreciated.
TaraMaiden Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 So you're finding replying "yes" a challenge....? It would have been out of my mouth before he'd finished asking the question....
Author slutacious Posted June 16, 2009 Author Posted June 16, 2009 He didnt have the balls to ask in person. I got a txt on his first break. Its been over for awhile. I think he is looking for the easy way out by asking me to end things.
TaraMaiden Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 ...Always play their game. Turn his question around on him....Put the responsibility back on his shoulders. "Him: Do you want me to move out? You: "Do you think you should move out?" Him: "That's up to you." You: "That's interesting. Why is it up to me?" Him: "Because you seem a bit...'off'..." You: "Really? Do I? And why do you think that would be?" Always put the decision back in his court. Don't let him off the hook so easily.
Author slutacious Posted June 16, 2009 Author Posted June 16, 2009 i followed that. He didnt play along so well. Instead he showed up on lunch break and decided he didnt want to leave after all. But today while i was at work, our roommate (my cousin) sent me a txt saying he had a female over while i was out.
BCCA Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 What more do you need to dump him? He's not asking you for sex like he used to, he had a girl over while you were gone, and hes asking if he should move out. Hes doing everything he can so that YOU dump him, because hes a coward.
Author slutacious Posted June 17, 2009 Author Posted June 17, 2009 i guess i am waiting on him to dump me. I dont want to give him the privilage of feeling better about himself because he wasnt the one who ended things.
Citizen Erased Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 i guess i am waiting on him to dump me. I dont want to give him the privilage of feeling better about himself because he wasnt the one who ended things. Don't bother. Tell him to leave. Don't do any of this mind game crap, for your own sake tell him to go and now.
BCCA Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 i guess i am waiting on him to dump me. I dont want to give him the privilage of feeling better about himself because he wasnt the one who ended things. Who dumps who is irrelevant. He's not being a good boyfriend, you have every reason to dump him. Waiting isnt getting you anywhere.
Author slutacious Posted June 17, 2009 Author Posted June 17, 2009 i know this. and i know i cant move on with him in the picture. i guess i will talk to him when he wakes up.
Citizen Erased Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 i know this. and i know i cant move on with him in the picture. i guess i will talk to him when he wakes up. Wake him up by dumping all of his crap out the window.
TaraMaiden Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 ....Top floor. And I do so hope you live in a high-rise building...... Ok, I admit it. I'm with Citizen. Stop being a patsy and just get him out.
Author slutacious Posted June 17, 2009 Author Posted June 17, 2009 he is leaving tomorrow. This is harder than i thought.
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