fabulous_chk Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 Every nasty thing he said to me during our break-up 3 months ago came back today and I was boiling mad!!! He was SUCH a scumbag!!! He apologized 3 weeks ago, but there are moments like today at 11AM I was consumed with rage. Sometimes I think it is better to feel MAD MAD MAD than be sad and wistful all the time. Anger is momentary. Sadness lingers. For months! Even for years!!! I prefer to be mad than to be a pathetic doormat, sighing wishes in the air.
Meaplus3 Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 Nothing wrong with feeling some anger infact, it's part of the healing process. So let it out, feel it and rid yourself of it. Healing takes time but, you will get there. Mea:)
Author fabulous_chk Posted June 16, 2009 Author Posted June 16, 2009 It comes and goes....then I start missing him and we're trapped into this circle of loving each other but knowing everything has been destroyed. Then I get angry again. This is too exhausting!
BearPower Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 I know what you mean, I just got hit with a wave of Nostalgia......then angry again...peh
drummerprince81 Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 Nostalgia is the killer... I have 95% good nostalgia and 5% bad nostalgia to reflect on which is why I will probably never reach the anger stage. Grrr (trying to be angry there ). I need a new focus.
BearPower Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 Nostalgia is a biatch.... I was doing well today, until I was talking about something that happened in the past, then remembered who it was who was with me....grrrr But now she is ****ing some other guy, so that is enough to get me over the bump...at times....
Nedved Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 Had the same angry feelings myself today!!! I must say i absolutley hate her at the moment i really do!! there must much i just wanna say to her but i can't pick up the phone!! I feel a bit bad about it to because i was thinking of saying some really nasty things to her that i know would hurt her badly but i d'ont wanna do that...i just need to calm down. I'l let myself down badly if i went dwon that route. Dose anybody else ever get the urge to do that? NC is so hard today....
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