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My ex and I broke up 2 years ago...we kept in touch, the whole nine yards while we were broken up...we worked together up until last october...a little before i left up until january he would constantly text message me...he gave me the impression he wanted to get back together and we would make plans to go out..well the first time he asked me i couldnt bc it was sontaneous and i was already occupied with another comittment..we made a raincheck but then i got sick..after that he acted cold towards me but i explained how i would love to hang out and made a new date...he said he would call on that day and go from there and when it came down to it he never called..nowe this is not the first time he had done something like this..so me being angry hurt and disapointed i sent him a message askin him if this was another onew of his head games, that if he had a change of heart and no longer wished to go hang out he should have been man enough to tell me...i told him it was a good way to lose friends and dont bother writing back

 

 

my friend told me that what i said was very final

but how was i sopposed to react

this was one of the things that lead to our breakup

whhat was i supposed to do smile and say its ok you blow me off for the 100th time

 

i mean was i wrong???

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Hi Dreamgurl :)

after you blowing him off 3 times in row, whether or not you had genuine reasons, I think it should have been on you to call him that day. why not just call him yourself?

He probably thinks because of the last 3 times that he would see if you wanted to hang out.

You should have made the effort a little bit more,sollowed your pride and called him up.

 

It seems things are still a little unbalanced between you both......

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Almost sounds to me like it's time to move on from this. You guys are getting offended by each other like people in a relationship, minus the relationship.

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You blew it, You blew him off 3 times, and he thought you were playing games, so he reacted to you. You better call him to stop the games cycle.

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Well I guess its too late to call him, as this happened in january...i cant call now-4 months later.....

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well, in that case, let it go.

 

I hate to say this, but what's the point in posting if it was so long ago?

Strikes me, you have a problem letting go of the past...

 

You've been broken up for 2 years?

This happened in January?

You really do need to drop the baggage.....

 

Stop agonising and move on.

He seems to have done!

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