Author Prolix Posted June 20, 2009 Author Posted June 20, 2009 Ah the wonders of not being a pussy and actually communicating. But yeah, I am extremely glad that we had that conversation. Turned out very well.
hoping2heal Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Ah the wonders of not being a pussy and actually communicating. But yeah, I am extremely glad that we had that conversation. Turned out very well. Yes it did And you weren't a pussy. Don't put yourself down so much.
Author Prolix Posted June 20, 2009 Author Posted June 20, 2009 Apparently if I don't put myself down, I'm arrogant Blast that middle ground!
Athena Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Apparently if I don't put myself down, I'm arrogant Blast that middle ground! Lol! .....
hoping2heal Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 You are arrogant sometimes, so what? Isn't everyone? I'm arrogant sometimes, ****. Don't worry about it, but you do put yourself down a lot.
Author Prolix Posted June 20, 2009 Author Posted June 20, 2009 I put myself down, sure, but it's how I honestly feel. Likewise, even with my arrogant statements, I mean, they're still honest. I've got strengths in some areas and weaknesses in others. Just trying to work on the weak points, I guess. Then again they say confidence is sexy. Whoops.
hoping2heal Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 I feel really giddy. I know that has nothing to do with anything, yes I know you feel that way, but you shouldn't. Yes, you have weakness' everyone does, and everyone is supposed to by the way. You can't fix all of them, you fix the ones that are pertinent, and learn to accept the rest. I feel so giddy. weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Mary3 Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 "Why don't you get an older girl who has her own place , with her own money in her account." If you know of any single, smart, caring women who fit that profile, let me know. I sure as hell cant find any during my four years here at school, even when being actively involved. Why dont get a plastic doll that looks good , keeps her mouth shut and never complains or calls you cheap ?
DarkestDreams Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Why dont get a plastic doll that looks good , keeps her mouth shut and never complains or calls you cheap ? He's not cheap, he's ..ahem "careful with money" This entire thread is a joke, I can't believe it has over 350 posts.
dreamergrl Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Oh dear... are we still talking about the girl OP never met?
dreamergrl Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Since plastic dolls came up... maybe OP and the OP from http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t192550/ should talk.
Mary3 Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 He's not cheap, he's ..ahem "careful with money" This entire thread is a joke, I can't believe it has over 350 posts. I KNOW and she might meet him and feel nothing . He might feel the same too. Or she might knock him out and take his wallet. God forbid...
WineCountry Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Oh my goodness Pro you would have to fly out to meet her? Why are you choosing someone so incredibly impossible to meet? How would this relationship pan out after that initial meeting? Look when choosing a mate, I don't believe you have too much of a say in terms of who you fall in love with, but you do have a say in who you pick to be the object of your initial attention especially online. You are going to have to learn to strategize a little better when it comes to picking women online. Do not go for these impossible situations that are just going to leave you handicapped and with your hands completely tied. Think Radiohead song...... Because he cannot emotionally deal with real life situations as he can with fantasy land.
WineCountry Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Jilly you seem to continually ignore the fact that I do have and maintain plenty of real-life interactions and have dated people at school. This means nothing. You had these relationships, and you can not deal with interacting with people on this personal of a level. This is why you are here agonizing over some internet chick you have never even met. though this is causing you turmoil, it is easier for you to handle than if this turmoil was up close and personal. Just because this particular instance is online doesn't mean anything. It has nothing to do with "risk-free" dating. Of course it does. However, the 'type' of personality you are will not allow you to see this. You are in denial.
Mary3 Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Oh dear... are we still talking about the girl OP never met? YES. The girl he never smelled , kissed , ate with , had sex , saw her bathtub for dirty rings or spent any money on yet...
Mary3 Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 [/i] Of course it does. However, the 'type' of personality you are will not allow you to see this. You are in denial. I thought OP said " Real Life Intercourse but he really said Real Life experiences ....
Mary3 Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Jilly you seem to continually ignore the fact that I do have and maintain plenty of real-life interactions and have dated people at school. Thats what I meant , ..........
Athena Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 I KNOW and she might meet him and feel nothing . He might feel the same too. Or she might knock him out and take his wallet. God forbid... Lol!! :lmao:
her_halo_slipped Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 Cut her loose. There are plenty more fish in the sea. Find one that will swim for her dinner and better still....one that will share it with you! You don't need someone like her bringing you down. You are a go getter...she isn't. It will be a source of contention in any real life relationship I'm sure.
Phateless Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 Prolix - you are not heeding the advice of anyone here. You are defending this girl at every turn because you think we're not seeing the whole picture. Those little details that you think make a difference - they don't. In situations like this, oversimplifying is the only way to see things clearly. Ask all of us here how we know.
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