EddieN Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 Back in September or so I met this one girl. When we first met we both seemed to be really attracted to each other. I asked for her number and suggested we go out sometime and she happily gave it to me. A few days later we met up for dinner at the dining hall. We had like 5 minutes alone until her friends (some guys some girls) found her and wanted to sit down with us. I would have liked to just been with her, but I handled it really cool. Hell, I even enjoyed myself...a little too much, I think. I ended up talking with one of her guy friends more than I was talking with her. From what I remember she didn't talk to her friends much and only tried to talk with me, but I was kind of talking to everyone. That was one situation where I was very social, even the life of the party (or table). I have a feeling she didn't take that well, but like, what did she expect? Her friends came...I wasn't just gonna ignore them. Anyway, I tried asking her to do something again but she couldn't. Contact kind of faded out after that. I would see her often for the rest of the year and would always smile and greet her, but there has always been this weirdness between us. I've finally decided that I don't want that. I really wanted something to happen with this girl...she was cool, smart, and stunning in an exotic sort of way. She has a lot of guy friends as well as girl friends but I have the feeling she doesn't go out with guys much, if at all. I'm wondering if I have a second chance at this girl. I feel like I gave her the impression that I wasn't interested, when really I was. I want her to know that I'm still interested. What can I do to try to establish contact again? What do I say? I did have her number but I lost my phone some time ago and never got her number back. I can contact her via the internet, though. It's okay if nothing comes of this and if I blew my one shot at this, but it's would be great if I could get another chance.
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Well establish contact again and become friends again and show your interested but not just off the bat. Give her a little time to absorb your friendship and then show you are clearly interested. Hope this helps
boogieboy Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 I think its important for you to find her in person so she cant ignore the email. You will know by her face in person if shes interested or not.
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