RosyDay Posted June 15, 2009 Posted June 15, 2009 I loved my boyfriend so much. When he would stand me up, it would really hurt me. When something happened, like the car breaking down, he would just stand me up and not call. Or if he was talking about coming to see me, he wouldn't call if he could not make it. I made excuse after excuse for him because he was homeless. He never wrote me snail mail letters, and he never gave me anything. He never celebrated my birthday. He did call a few times a week. He told me over and over again that he loved me. I cut him slack because his life was so chaotic. I was seeing him about once every 4 weeks because he was poor and homeless. One day he told me if his car was fixed, he would come down, so it wasn't a definite date. But he never called and when I tried to call him, he just ignored me all day until 9pm because he was talking to several mechanics and the warranty office. there were many phone calls, so he could have called me in between calls, but he did not. I was so upset that I left message after message on his machine...very mean messages. He made fun of me and I called him an ass and hung up. 7 days later he was in another relationship. My heart is so shattered, I can't get past this.
Exit Posted June 15, 2009 Posted June 15, 2009 We tried helping you in the other threads you posted. You are simply going to hurt until you decide to stop. Yes he's the one who hurt you but you are the one who is allowing it to continue. Sorry but he doesn't sound like a great catch. In his situation he should have been grateful to even have someone caring about him but instead he treated you like garbage. You already acknowledge all the things he did wrong, this should help you move on. Find a hobby. Watch a movie, read a book, exercise, call friends, etc. I know you can't help who you have feelings for, but he doesn't sound worth it at all.
SweetyBear Posted June 15, 2009 Posted June 15, 2009 Rosy, you need to get out the list you made a bit ago. Get it out and read it and see that he's not worth all this. Do you have any idea why you can't get past it? Did you have hope of a future with a homeless man who barely took the time to see you? There is much better out there for you. Believe that.
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