used2bthesweetstgirl Posted June 15, 2009 Posted June 15, 2009 so me and this guy i went to h.s with have been on and off for about a year now, unofficially. the problem is, im tired and i want a legit relationship. i told him about it and he told me we shouldn't rush anything, but he gives me an attitude when i get jealous when he flirts with others girls like "well we are supposed to be on the DL". we've said the "L" word, i met his family so i dont understand whats holding him back! any advice would be greatly appreciated.
zilverenvlinder Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 Clearly time for an ultimatum. You need to let him know that he is either in a relationship with you, or he's not. If he's not, I know it's really hard, but let him go and find someone who will love you and treat you with respect. Also, this does not mean you can be Friends With Benefits. No no no. That's what he wants. If he wants to be with you then he will make the commitment. So let him choose.
Author used2bthesweetstgirl Posted June 16, 2009 Author Posted June 16, 2009 Clearly time for an ultimatum. You need to let him know that he is either in a relationship with you, or he's not. If he's not, I know it's really hard, but let him go and find someone who will love you and treat you with respect. Also, this does not mean you can be Friends With Benefits. No no no. That's what he wants. If he wants to be with you then he will make the commitment. So let him choose. thank you sooo soo much!! =)
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