azraf Posted June 15, 2009 Posted June 15, 2009 I am so close to breaking NC right now and i think its best to log on here instead. I think the biggest mistake for me was to go on Facebook last night during my NC period. I think that was a big reason for me to feel rather down today. My ex cheated on me and now i want my ex back. i know it sounds desperate and stupid but at this very moment i feel like winning my ex back, and thats why i adopt the NC method. For two days after the break up my ex contacted and texted me to see how i was doing, really sweet messages like miss you, love you etc and since i had told my ex on the day of break up not to contact me anymore because i needed to move on, after the two days attempt my ex has stopped calling. now i feel like i should've replied the text or call when my ex contacted me and at that point i felt strong. Now i just feel so shattered and i want my ex back. should i call since it has been two weeks or wait until 1 month?what if my ex has moved on with the new guy?ive got alot of questions on my mind, all the shoulda woulda coulda etc but im afraid of sounding desperate again. i dont know. any advice is appreciated. Thanks guys!
gorgio Posted June 15, 2009 Posted June 15, 2009 Don't call her. I was in a similar situation, went NC for 1 month saw her pic on facebook and tried to get her back. It wasted another month that I could have used to heal and she did come back to me but broke up and went back to the guy she left me for. Move on quickly, if she wants you back she will come looking for you. Read all threads about NC on this site.
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