whatdoido20 Posted June 15, 2009 Posted June 15, 2009 Ok, I'm really confused I have a guy friend and we hang out and relax all the time, some people even have suggested that we become a couple but it's been strictly this comfortable, platonic, friendship for several years now. He comes over every so often, hangs out on my couch, we talk, we watch tv, then go to to work the next day. Sometimes we talk throughout the week as well. Well last week we were watching TV and he puts his arm around me and kind of holds me for the remainder of the night that felt NOT platonic, and gives me a hug before he takes off for the night. We never hug. What is this about??!! This week is was all back to normal and strictly platonic again, awkward even, as we sat there and watched TV, we were like friends again. Guys help please, I mean if there was something there it would have happened again right?
amagordos Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 well first of all do you have feelings for him? I think if you, its best if you find out what he's deal is. Well try flirting with him to see how he reacts or try to make him jealous. If all this fails just ask him why he acts so strange. I hope this helps.
big_girls_rock Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 I'd ask him, bring it up- ask him what was up with the arm and the hug the other night. It's possible that he likes you and wants to pursue something more but threw it out of his mind because he was confused about his feelings.
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