boogieboy Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 To address the OP original question, the guy that dates 4-6 women doesnt call each of them every day, and cant spend as much time with 4-6 women. He seems too busy, hence those women like to wonder if hes interested because he's not hounding after them. Its a challenge. Those women probably want a relationship, but they like a lil suspense and mystery, and they dont want the guy falling all over them right away. SOme of them actually want to prove to him, (if he is that great in their eyes) that they are worth more of his time and they work at it. Its classic. Also the guy is probably already sleeping with at least 2 of them, so when he meets new women, hes not hungry for sex, and they love that hes not pushing on them physically. Now the majority of other women only want the guy to be dating her, and if he doesnt make more time for them because hes dating others, they wonder why by posting on this board.
cyril's fan Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 To address the OP original question, the guy that dates 4-6 women doesnt call each of them every day, and cant spend as much time with 4-6 women. He seems too busy, hence those women like to wonder if hes interested because he's not hounding after them. Its a challenge. Those women probably want a relationship, but they like a lil suspense and mystery, and they dont want the guy falling all over them right away. SOme of them actually want to prove to him, (if he is that great in their eyes) that they are worth more of his time and they work at it. Its classic. Also the guy is probably already sleeping with at least 2 of them, so when he meets new women, hes not hungry for sex, and they love that hes not pushing on them physically. Now the majority of other women only want the guy to be dating her, and if he doesnt make more time for them because hes dating others, they wonder why by posting on this board. But where do you draw the line? I don't like to beat someone's door down if I know he doesn't like me that way but neither do I want to miss anything should he think that I wasn't interested enough. Isn't it a thin line?
clv0116 Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 In the age of equality and financial and social freedom, why would women have a need to get married (or even have a committed relationship) to have children and a family? There are plenty of male role models available with family and friends and genetically preferable sperm is a wink and a smile away with no requirement of commitment nor need for compatibility. Pragmatism at its best Define need. I don't think a few decades of depraved luxury have rewired our genome yet.
clv0116 Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 thats a great theory as long as you're not having sex with any of those 4-6 different girls...in addition the "theory" doesn't apply to anyone over 30 Actually ... wrong on both counts according to my experiments on the subject.
boogieboy Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 But where do you draw the line? I don't like to beat someone's door down if I know he doesn't like me that way but neither do I want to miss anything should he think that I wasn't interested enough. Isn't it a thin line? Its is a delicate push pull situation. If someone pulls back, someone has to push, otherwise, no one gets in touch with each other. So if he doesnt call you for a week, but you dont call him, he will probably wind up calling you the next week. But at that point you sense there are other women who have priority, so you cut your losses.
Woggle Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 Women want what they can't have plus they want what another woman has.
carhill Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 Need = Social and/or psychological/physiological requirement. Example = I "need" to eat or use a NGT/IV to ingest nutrition in order to live beyond a finite period of time. Women do not "need" a man (the physical being) to produce offspring and form a family. Homosexual women do this all the time. They do "need" a man's sperm. At this point in time there is no substitute. Since the "need" for sex is strong in most males, females have no problem getting the "real thing" (as opposed to AI) wherever and whenever they desire it. Need is an important part of male psychology, so it is predictable that males would respond strongly to such suggestions and/or affirmations. Anything which serves to diminish their value and stature sociologically or in the evolutionary progression is met with aggression based in self-interest. History repeats itself, as it is destined to throughout time. Not a bad mind-f*ck, if I do say so myself. I learned from the master
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