EmperorR Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 why do I care whether my ex fiance who I haven't spoke to in 10 months will contact me, why do I care if my last ex who i haven't contacted in 2 months will contact me. sigh
Nikki Sahagin Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 I guess because special occassions are a reminder that someone that once meant a lot to you is missing. Its a painful time. On my birthday when my ex text me, I wasn't sure if that hurt less or more, either ways its painful. You will be fine
BearPower Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 You care, cos your the same as the rest of us. We want to move on, but there is a piece of your heart that still loves that person and you want to know that they still care. I for one, am thinking the same thing ''will she contact me on my birthday?'' I doubt it. And if she did, im pretty sure I would be gutted, happy, but gutted. Partly for me ignoring her birthday (pretty much) and partly as I would want her to be there with me. Im sorry you feel like this bro. But as Nikki says, you will be fine
Author EmperorR Posted June 17, 2009 Author Posted June 17, 2009 birthday today, nothing just as I expected, im a idiot for holding on. Yes I can't lie i do still love my cheating of a ex fiance a little bit and sadly I think I always will.
on edge Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 why do I care whether my ex fiance who I haven't spoke to in 10 months will contact me, why do I care if my last ex who i haven't contacted in 2 months will contact me. sigh Because you are human Kudos on keeping NC for so long.
TheBigCow Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 Yeah I'm sure everyone feels this way unfortunately... but... HAPPY BIRTHDAY EmperorR!!
Author EmperorR Posted June 18, 2009 Author Posted June 18, 2009 Well my last ex did MSG me a day late, at least one remembered
bluewolf17 Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 Emporer, Happy belated birthday! If it makes any diffrence, I didn't get a text or anything from my current Ex. But who cares right? Just another reason to stay NC. Proud of you.
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