smoochie Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 Hi all, I am really angry this morning and need to get this out. Two months ago my car was keyed by some girl that is only 23. She is dating my ex bf who is 34 (me 37). I didnt say anything because we didn't have physical proof and since she is so young I let it go. The very next day my ex writes a short blog about people (me) not liking him. Then calls to make sure I am not staying with our mutual friends when we all go out of town (we hang in the same circle). Then he wrote a song about us LAST YEAR but never performed it. Not a love song or anything...it was regarding an argument we had. Well five days after my car was keyed, the girl who did it sang the song knowing I would be there. She didn't know he wrote the song about us. I was floored but still didn't say anything. A month goes by and I dont see them. Then last week I am discussing business with a mutual friend and she jumps in our conversation. My ex grabs her by the mouth, starts laughing and I walk away. Now I am pissed. I told my friend who in turn, called him the next day and cursed him out. Told him to get that little girl in check, that we know she keyed the car (which they obviously deny) and to leave me alone. He gives the little girl my phone number and she calls me all day. I thought it was him since he told my friend he was going to call me and called back the next day to clear the air. She starts ranting and raving about how I want him and am a stalker. I very pointedly told her she was a child to me, leave me alone and I didn't give a flip about either one of them. I told her where that song came from and she hung up the phone on me. The girl is very ugly with messed up teeth. They both get high all of the time on weed. He is an addict who used to go to meetings but fell off the wagon. He is losing all of his friends because of his erratic behavior and nobody likes the girl because of the way she is acting towards me. Since our conversation, they have called me four more times. Have called our mutual friend at least five times to talk about this. He finally called me and left a message for me to call him Friday but I refuse. I just found out he was there the day I talked to the girl...he could have put an end to all of this then. I don't understand any of the stuff I just explained. I have no idea why she has targeted me when there are plenty of other women he is with. They actually call him and try to get his attention. I NEVER call or have any contact with him outside of the two places we all hang at so I don't even know where he/she is getting this idea that I give a flip about them. We have hung out for the past two years, this is nothing new. Can anyone shed some light on this for me? I really am at a loss.
fishtaco Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 He's angry at you over the break up. The 23 year old girl is not very bright. She latched onto his emotions and is carrying out his anger toward you for him. He still cares more about you than his new girl. She's just someone convenient for him. She on the other hand cares very much about him, enough to turn into a psycho bitch on his behalf. Anyway he's immature, good job breaking up with him. The 23 year old girl is just acting her age. She'll learn soon enough. As for the solution, only thing I can think of is to stay away and cut off all contact and wait until this blows over. With you out of the picture, they'll turn on each other. You can watch their relationship implode from a safe distance. Don't forget to point and laugh.
missdependant Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 Do you really have no idea why she doesn't like you? Or are you leaving some things out?
carhill Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 OK, so we have a delayed development pothead who is a charismatic songwriter who grabs girlfriends by the mouth and said girlfriend keys the OP's car for yet unknown reasons. Drama, much? Perhaps 'hanging' in a different circle might be beneficial.....
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