spookie Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 Remember Graham from this thread? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t189374/ We hung out again. Work function, but he behaved in a way that ensured I spent the whole night with him. Anyway, I got drunk and horny and invited him back to my place to explore one of our mutual interests (getting high). He lives an hour away, and it was a Thursday, so I'm guessing he knew he'd be spending the night. At first, we got along really great. The convo flowed smoothly, we seemed to be realizing we have some of the same life-views, and he kept going on about how awesome and interesting and hot he thought I was. Great! I thought. I haven't made out... since the last time we made out! Maybe tonight I've taken enough drugs to mess around with you without crying! After my attention span for conversation was exhausted, I took him to bed. Except... he just lay there like a dead log. I kissed him, took my shirt off, did some grinding, but no matter how horny YOU are, it kinda takes two to tango. "What's wrong?" I finally asked, deflated. "Are you not attracted to me or something?" "No, I am," he said. He chuckled nervously. "I defintiely am. I'm just at a point in my life where I'm not into these kinds of hookups anymore. I want something more serious." Of course, I was pissed, but I let it go, rather than demanding he get up and go home. But why come over to my house, and sleep in my molestation station, if you're not looking to hook up with me? I mean... I'm not into random hookups either. Except when I am. And then I don't appreciate it being pointed to me how much of a whore evidently I am. I thought that was it as far as speaking terms went, but the next day, he sent me a text: "Thanks again for the hospitality. When you're in the city and want to jam, shoot me a text." What the cock?
Trimmer Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 "What's wrong?" I finally asked, deflated. "Are you not attracted to me or something?" "No, I am," he said. He chuckled nervously. "I defintiely am. I'm just at a point in my life where I'm not into these kinds of hookups anymore. I want something more serious." Somehow this doesn't ring quite true... If I've gotten myself to the point where Spookie's over me with her top off, grinding away, even if I really am at "that point in my life", I'm not really thinking long-term right at that very moment. I think he had a case of peep-on-the-fritz, and was covering for it, thus the nervous chuckle... But why come over to my house, and sleep in my molestation station, if you're not looking to hook up with me? Point well taken. Can't fathom it myself...
wuggle Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 My guess, too much weed and he couldn't get it up, laughed nervously and said the first thing he could to make an excuse. Probably had planned to bone you when he went back to your place but just couldn't rise to the occasion. Wouldn't take it personally, I'm sure you're not losing it (your appeal that is, still not sure about your sanity :laugh:)
Island Girl Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 But why come over to my house, and sleep in my molestation station, if you're not looking to hook up with me? spookie. I just love you. Your posts are so raw, honest, and you express yourself as no one else can though they want to. You are an amazing gal.
wuggle Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 When I first read this I was asking my wife what a mole-station was ?? thought she had some sort of animal thing going on
green apples Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 I have to admit I did not read all your posts but did it not occur a bit to you that maybe he really wanted something serious with you and that was why he did not just want to hook up?
Scarlett513 Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 I agree, he was messed up and couldn't get it up. He didn't want to admit that so he put his foot in his mouth instead. ....At the same time, it could be that the wanting something more serious "excuse" has at least some degree of truth to it. Decide if that's what you want too, and then proceed accordingly. You might need to actually talk to him about it frankly.
Land Shark Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 Strange that he'd get all the way to bed before figuring out that he wasn't into "that kind of thing" anymore. I think that was a bit of BS. You'll never know the truth though, so I suggest just letting this go.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 Maybe an alien switched bodies with him. Otherwise I can't for the life of me figure out why he doesn't want sex.
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