Should I get over it

[coolduke]

Hi Guyz,

 

I just want to take some thing out of my head but am not able too hope you guyz help, I had a friend and I met her few times every thing seemed to be ok then the last time we met I got a bit hard on her and really busted her on couple of issues, then I felt that she started avoiding me I sent her email twice and then called her but she didnt responded and this happened like in two weeks so then I sent her an sms that as u r behaving wierd as u r avoiding me and this is not acceptable to me so we are ending this, she replied the next day that I dont know abt her life what she is facing and she is back home as some body is really sick, and who am I to criticize her and we are done.

 

I kindof got upset I didnt knew what she was going through so I sent her an sms saying sorry I didnt knew what she was facing, the first thing she did after that is removing me from the friends list from facebook do u guyz find any clue did I do some thing really wrong there I am not sure whether she was saying the true, well I dont really find any reason if she was lying, so should I get over it or did I really heart her any comments please

 

Thanks in advance

[SoulSearch_CO]

LOL...so you rip your friend a new one in person. She starts avoiding you by email. You tell her you're done with her because she's avoiding you. Did you do anything wrong? You sound like a control-freak. If things don't go your way, you try to make people do what you want them to do. I think you're going to have to let this go - you already tried to control her, you can't control her reactions at this point. If she's having a rough time right now the last thing she needs is a friend acting like a jerk.

[coolduke]

Lolz I like the term control freak well let me explain you the whole story

 

If I did some thing wrong well as far as I can remember I messed with her the last time we met as usual and there was nothing special about it but I felt she got serious on some thing so I stopped doing that and till we left every thing seemed to be ok, except that I cant find any other reason.

 

We usually met once a month or some times twice, I sent her email once and then after a month again but she didn’t responded and then I got offended on her when I saw her crossing me on the street we both were with some friends and she ignored me I saw her only when she passed me over as I was looking at some thing else but I am pretty sure she saw me but she passed by. At that time I thought may be she is angry on me on some thing. So then I called her but she didn’t responded

 

After a couple of days then I sent her the sms that why is she behaving so weird if there is some thing just say it to me or we can talk about that and if this is the way then we should end this the response for me was unexpected , she replied back that I know nothing about her life what she is facing and she is at her home country caze some one is sick and who am I to criticise her and bla bla bla and yes we are done, may be she travelled back home after I saw her on the street I don’t know.

 

I replied her back that I was not aware of what she is facing right now so I am sorry I heart her feelings ...., well I know the whole thing got a mess but I would really like to know what happened there I didn’t find a clue why suddenly things changed, this was really creepy for me. I would like to know what is going on here and what is the lesson for me in this, soulsearch any comments on this

 

Thanks for your response

[coolduke]

come on guyz I am waiting for a response from some one