Clover Posted June 13, 2009 Posted June 13, 2009 I have been crushing on this guy that catches the same train as me in the afternoons every now and then in the afternoons for the last few months. A couple of weeks ago I was at the Pub and my friend and I were talking to a whole group a people. Someone from behind me started talking to us too. I turned around and to my surprise saw that it was my crush! My crush and I introduced ourselves and actually got the chance to properly meet. I asked him if he caught the train to see if it actually was him and it was! He was like "I thought you looked familiar, you are the one that sleeps." . Lol. I was like "yep. That's me!" Feeling embarrassed and surprised he actually recognized me. My crush was also like saying to the people he was with "hey! I already know her!" We chatted for a while and he introduced me to a couple of he's mates including a girl but I didn't make a move on him. I was too nervous too. He was also like "you should come over and chat next time on the train." I was like "yeah, I probably will." After we just left it that. I saw my crush on the train about a week after and got the courage to go up and say hello and have a quick chat before he got off at he's stop. Last night went to the Pub again and ended up seeing one of my crush's mates that he sits with on the train. Said hello. Was also asking "hey I think I know you. I think we catch the same train in the afternoon's." At first he wasn't sure about it. Then remembered. "oh hey I do! Where do you get on and off at?" Vice Verser. Then I was like "I also met one of your other mates you sit with on there a week or so ago." He was like "yeah I know him (my crush), I work with him." He seemed pretty friendly. I was with a couple of my friends when I saw my crush's mate again later that night and my mate walks up to him and goes "so what's the deal with the guy (my crush) is he single?" After I introduced he's mate to them. I felt so embarrased. Didn't think she would actually do that! At first my crush's mate got a little taken back but then was like "yeah he does." After that it kinda got a little awkward. He hung around for a couple of minutes and then pretty much walked off, not long after that. Now my crush will probably find out I like him now. Feeling pretty disappointed he has a girlfriend though. I have a feeling that this was the girl that I got introduced to the first night I met him. Didn't realise he was with her cause she wasn't hanging around him the whole time and he didn't introduce her as he's girlfriend, just by name and it was only said a quick hello. I just thought she was just a random friend that was part of the group. I was glad that I didn't end up making a move on him in the end that night but, even though I was very, very tempted too. How should I act next time I see these two guys? Sorry in advance for the long thread.
TaraMaiden Posted June 13, 2009 Posted June 13, 2009 Natural, normal, friendly. People do crush on each other, but why get awkward and embarassed simply because you've found out he has a GF? You weren't to know....! So he has a GF! So make friends, and stay friends. If - and only IF - something comes of it, fine. If not, at least he's a buddy! People get far too anxious about 'what ifs' and 'what nows'.... Relax!! Life's too short to get anal about something like this!
Shindig Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 It sounds like you built up the possibilities a lot before you met him. TaraMaiden has good advice. Stop thinking about the 'what if's and get to know him as a friend. Who knows... you might discover he's a complete arse.
Author Clover Posted June 18, 2009 Author Posted June 18, 2009 Okay. Will I saw both these guys on the train today. I noticed my crush's mate sat right behind me, then was calling out to my crush to come join him. My crush was acting a little awkward and hesitant about it at first but eventually came down and sat next to he's mate. I was kinda half asleep when I noticed all that going on. Like my nana naps on the train. They were both sitting behind me and may have wanted to chat possibly. Silly me kinda chickened out and pretended to stay asleep. LOL. I actually did end up falling asleep and a couple of minutes later I woke up and looked behind me and saw that both the guys were gone. I noticed one of them left their jumper behind but. The mate ended up coming back (on he's own) and getting the jumper when it got closer to he's stop and I ended up saying hello and having a bit of a chat to him in the end. Just natural, normal and friendly like you said TaraMaiden. I think I will just keep doing that with both those guys and try befriend them. Not sure why my crush seemed awkward when he's mate was yelling at him to come sit near us but.
Shindig Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 Sounds like fun! Keep us updated. Maybe he's on the way out with his current and you'll be at the right place and when they part ways.
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