Shouting from the Roof Tops! How I broke NC to free myself from my ex-boyfriend.

[RosyDay]

Yesterday, I posted a list of everything my ex did to me. I don't know if I posted it here or in the Breaking up Forum. Last night, I cried my eyes out, again. Then I made an even more detailed, comprehensive list and I came up with 60...that's right 60 reasons why not to go back to my ex. Then I wrote him this letter. Yes, I went into the gutter to write this, but considering the way he treated me in the relationship and after he left me...he deserved it. I did leave a few things out. I also altered some of the words so it would not be inappropriate to post, but you should be able to figure them out. After I emailed this letter to him...I felt sooooooooooooo much better, and now I feel as if I am able to move on. Here goes:

 

L,

 

I changed my mind. I actually came up with 60, that's right, SIXTY reasons why not to go back to you. From your incessant immaturity to your rapist-like behaviors, to your short d**k.

 

I don't want you anymore. You are toxic. You are an emotional parasite and a liar. You take and you take and you take and give no compassion or patience in return. You told me you would never stop trying with us, you told me I would come before your hobby, and you told me you would write me snail mail letters if I wrote you. You told me you would make more time for me. Lies. All Lies. My sister was right about you. You are a pile of s**t

 

That sham of a relationship we had was ALL ABOUT YOU: your wants, your needs, your lack of time, your hobby, your paper work, your homelessness, your car being repossessed, your problems with the law, your other car not working, not calling me to tell me what was going on when you were thinking about coming to see me because YOU DIDN'T WANT TO BE DISTURBED...YOU, YOU, YOU, THE ALMIGHT L!

 

I don't need you. I can't believe how I groveled for a month because I wanted you so badly. Go f**k yourself, L. Better yet, you go to H**l and take your girlfriend with you.

 

By the way, 6 months from now when she finds out how screwed up, how emotionally distant, how controlling, how arrogant, how immature, and how selfish you are, you will be all alone again and just jump to another woman, because you are a whore, L. You are a filthy, disgusting whore.

 

 

YOU ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME. F**K YOU, A**HOLE.

 

DON'T EVER CONTACT ME AGAIN.

[iBelieve In Symmetry]

I don't want you anymore. You are toxic. You are an emotional parasite and a liar. You take and you take and you take and give no compassion or patience in return. You told me you would never stop trying with us, you told me I would come before your hobby, and you told me you would write me snail mail letters if I wrote you. You told me you would make more time for me. Lies. All Lies. My sister was right about you. You are a pile of s**t

 

That sham of a relationship we had was ALL ABOUT YOU: your wants, your needs, your lack of time, your hobby, your paper work, your homelessness, your car being repossessed, your problems with the law, your other car not working, not calling me to tell me what was going on when you were thinking about coming to see me because YOU DIDN'T WANT TO BE DISTURBED...YOU, YOU, YOU, THE ALMIGHT L!

 

I don't need you. I can't believe how I groveled for a month because I wanted you so badly. Go f**k yourself, L. Better yet, you go to H**l and take your girlfriend with you.

 

By the way, 6 months from now when she finds out how screwed up, how emotionally distant, how controlling, how arrogant, how immature, and how selfish you are, you will be all alone again and just jump to another woman, because you are a whore, L. You are a filthy, disgusting whore.

 

 

YOU ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME. F**K YOU, A**HOLE.

 

DON'T EVER CONTACT ME AGAIN.

 

This is what you need to read during your weak moments. Beauty at it's best!

[Trialbyfire]

Rosyday, quit beating around the bush. You should be a little more direct!

[BearPower]

 

oh my god.....

 

That is harsh!!! LOL

 

Glad your feeling better but are you sure you should have sent it?

Its quite angry....Will you not regret it down the line?

 

I know I just drafted something like this, and i am SO glad i didnt send it....

 

It seems to be one those days for heartbreakees....

 

 

Did you get a response yet?

It is one of those letters that would make me want to write back and say f.u.r.b.

[BearPower]

because you are a whore, L. You are a filthy, disgusting whore.

[BearPower]

Im sorry, but this is just to funny!!!!!

XD

 

What a colourful vocabulary, you painted such a picture in my head! It was comic, so thankyou for making me smile today

[GorillaTheater]

I changed my mind. I actually came up with 60, that's right, SIXTY reasons why not to go back to you. From your incessant immaturity to your rapist-like behaviors, to your short d**k.

 

LOL, I've got a dialogue going through my head right now:

 

RosyDay: "You're a cat-raping, trout-fondling, short-dicked, bottle-squatting piece of week-old sh*t!"

 

The Guy: "Short-dicked! What's that supposed to mean?!"

[BearPower]

Funnily enough, i wanted to do the same as you Rosy.

But I decided against it....

 

OUCH!! That is really gonna piss him off, it will eat at him for years to come!!!

[iBelieve In Symmetry]

What a colourful vocabulary

 

Ahahahaha

[BearPower]

Rosy, you should be writing childrens books.

You could smoke JK Rowling in the water.

 

 

I can imagine you good you must feel, I just crack up everytime i read it!!

I practically have tears of laughter streaming down my cheeks right now

[RosyDay]

Thanks for your comments. I have no regrets sending it. I am done with him.

[BearPower]

I am done with him.

No sh*t!!!

 

 

 

Good for you for you Rosy.

[fabulous_chk]

lol! i didn't send such a letter but i did tell him to his face that he's an a55h0L3, while laughing.

 

 

he agreed.

 

 

good for you Rosy!

[CaliGuy]

Haha, now that is what I call "hitting below the belt".

 

"....to your short d**k!"

 

Haha. I'm ROFLMAO right now!!!! Hehe.

[BearPower]

Haha, now that is what I call "hitting below the belt".

 

"....to your short d**k!"

 

Haha. I'm ROFLMAO right now!!!! Hehe.

 

 

I know!! this is the funniest thing I have ever seen on this site, i havent laughed so much in ages. I want to print it out and put it in a frame or something.....

[Jdw_Icequeen]

Wow.. I have to say thats pretty much alot of the things I said to my ex in a nutshell.

 

But I did add 1 more to my list and I came up with 61 things. Who knows what number I will end up with.

 

I am glad you got your form of closure. Unfortuantly my lovley words started a whirlwind of fighting lol.

 

I hope your able to move on now gl 2 u!

[shadowplay]

LOL, I've got a dialogue going through my head right now:

 

RosyDay: "You're a cat-raping, trout-fondling, short-dicked, bottle-squatting piece of week-old sh*t!"

 

The Guy: "Short-dicked! What's that supposed to mean?!"

 

:lmao:.................

[BearPower]

Rosy, I think what you wrote in the 'post here instead of contacting your ex' was very different than this....but in a way, i prefer this one. Brutally honest!!!