againstallodds Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 My gf and I have a fight. Here's the situation. She need to borrow a laptop for her son eye treatment. I let her borrow my laptop which I was planning to sell. The next day someone want to purchase the laptop so I asked her to give it back to me. I offer her an imac which is a desktop she said she doesn't have space for it so I took it back. A few days later she asks me if she can borrow another laptop since I have a few. I said I can't but she keeps asking me why so I told her I am planning to sell them as well and offer her an Imac temporarily. During our conversation on the phone she got upset because i didn't let her borrow the laptop so she hang up the phone. We didn't talk to each other for 4 or 5 days. She emailed me and call me stingy and that I couldn't do a little thing like that to help her kid ( I offer her the Imac and said I'll find her a laptop later she said she got no space but she bought a lot more furniture). She said I am inconsiderate because I didn't call her to ask what's wrong. The thing is I am also upset because she was being rude and just hang up the phone. I don't want to call because I believe this is not my fault. If I call her and ask what's wrong then it will be my fault. I need advice please. How would you deal with this situation? Thanks
GorillaTheater Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 I'd let her borrow a laptop, and delay thoughts of selling it. You sound a bit stingy to me, too.
TaraMaiden Posted June 13, 2009 Posted June 13, 2009 Ever thought of selling her the laptop? At a reasonable cost, of course.... You have 'several laptops' you're selling....? C'mon... can't you spare just one to lend her for a while....?
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