Lucky555 Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 He contacts me just about everyday now with one liners! today i just left him a smile. I think maybe he wants attention?? He obviously isn't suggesting a date and is really just flirting. I'm not being impatient here this has been going on for over a month! I'm going to take a step back, go out and have fun, and forget about it. This dude is giving mixed signals.
LovieDove24 Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 Care to elaborate a little more? Have you dated for awhile now? How many dates have you two been on, and how serious would you gauge your relationship to be? You didn't provide a whole lotta info here.
Author Lucky555 Posted June 12, 2009 Author Posted June 12, 2009 not serious, he is a guy i have known and he had been messaging me throughout the last two months of my college life so to speak...which he knew i was really busy because I had exams and stuff, so he acted like he was interested. He messaged me every day and I kept things casual. However, now that I am free I let him know that i have more time to do other things besides school. So he messages me via online only. There is no texting, no calling. So i thought now that he knows i have free time he will ask me out.................well nope he just messages me with one line sentences on my facebook being really flirty now. However, this past week he "stepped back" doesn't message me anymore and leaves the one liners...either casual or flirty. Now to me it seems like maybe he isn't trying to pursue me but have ATTENTION. So its like when i had no time to date he was talking to me every day. Now that i have time he doesn't pursue a date.......What is up with that? I'm very confused and I'm going to step back myself and go out and forget out about him this weekend. I'm not asking him out because he maybe just playing?????? lastly, I am not hooked on him just bothered by the fact he is contacting me and not initiating anything. I like him, so now it bothers me.
Scarlett513 Posted June 14, 2009 Posted June 14, 2009 I think he's just after the female attention. I could be wrong, but he reminds me ALOT of one of my friends who does the same thing with her guy friends. She openly admits it's about attention. Sounds like he doesn't want the relationship but does want the ego boost.
Author Lucky555 Posted June 14, 2009 Author Posted June 14, 2009 ya, he has not contacted me going on four days. Wow before he was talking every day. So if he contacts me I am going to "have to go" because I'm busy. I don't feel like wasting my time thanks for the input
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