bubbleskeeps023 Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 im new here. just asking for any opinions or advise to clear my head.. im a mistress for over 2 years now with a man 3o yrs older than me.we started as friends, i may say bestfriends because i am the only one who he shared his problems with and one of those is his marriage.he and his wife have 2 separate house.but he still go there to eat and hang out. i tried to advised him how he can make his marriage work then but i dont know how we fell in love.he always do his best to make it up for all the things that he cant do bec of course ours is forbidden. there is also some time that the wife felt there was sumthng and theyll fight over and our relationshp so much affected because he need to not see or txt me so that his wife will stop suspecting him having ow.and now its almost 2 wiks not hearing from him because its kinda his vacation so hes in their house.i undrstand that he couldnt txt.i trust him but of course i had this fear of losing him. i know it will end but still hoping not now.what should i think about so that it will still last?
Lucky_One Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 Well, wanting anything to last longer with a man who is 30 years older is like wishing on a star - a nice thought, but it doesn't get you anywhere. there is no fountain of youth, and statistically he is going to die WAY before you. Viagra may help things last longer in the short term. Why would him being on vacation prevent him from being able to call or text you? He and his wife are joined at the hip 24/7/365?
Author bubbleskeeps023 Posted June 12, 2009 Author Posted June 12, 2009 he stays in the other house with his wife and children till dinner and goes home with one of his children to his house to sleep.. he dont want his wife to become suspicious with our affair so we will never get on trouble. i really cant explain how i feel for him, but hes totally a great guy for me. i know someday it would end, but i really love him and want to make him happy..
blinded Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 Huh? Maybe you need to clairfy. Why do they live in separate houses??? Are they separated? Getting divorced? It sounds too weird for me. Who goes on vacation and stays in separate places. If he doesn't have time to contact you from a separate house, then let him go.
Author bubbleskeeps023 Posted June 12, 2009 Author Posted June 12, 2009 kinda. wel lets say they sleep in different houses at night. he and his son just go in his house when they about to sleep.
bentnotbroken Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 :laugh:Too funny. A 30 years younger person advising someone on marriage and children. Unless you have some special talent, I doubt that's the case. You fell for a stale line at best and just didn't mind being with a married man at worst.
fooled once Posted June 13, 2009 Posted June 13, 2009 Is this even a real post??? You trust a man who is cheating on his wife?
whichwayisup Posted June 13, 2009 Posted June 13, 2009 he dont want his wife to become suspicious with our affair so we will never get on trouble Doesn't this make you think twice? He doesn't want his wife to find out, so basically are you OK with just being his side dish? This man is a liar and a cheater, you can do better. Not sure how old you are, but messing around with a MM 30 years older than you, you're wasting your life away! Don't you want your own family one day? Stick with this guy, you'll NEVER get it and one day you'll realize how alone you really are - While he's with his kids, wife at Xmas and other holidays..
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