RosyDay Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 How do you let go of someone when they've left you and moved on to somone else within 7 days? He told me he loved me. Two weeks later, he told me he did not. I waited a year for him to get his left together. Now that his life is together he is sharing it with someone else. I know I've written about this before. But the pain is astronomical. I never knew love could hurt so much. This is the worse pain I've ever felt in my life.
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 First of all, Love is not the one hurting you here, it's lonliness and rejection. Second of all, I really don't think you should have been waiting for this guy over a year because that is a long time over a guy that was only Loving you for two weeks. I, personally, fell in Love with a girl much like you did with this guy and a short time later they left because they where confused and had to sort things out, yata yata yata. Then I found out she went with some other guy. I was hurt and it pretty much sucked but I got over it and found better people. Just cut all communication, hide all the things that remind you of him and occupy your time. You are worth more than that and should move on. Chin up, you'll find someone before you know it.
drivesmecrazy3 Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 hey rosey, Ive been in a somewhat similar situation. I dated a girl for 5 years - I loved her to death, would have surely given my life for her in a heartbeat. I always helped her in so many ways, academically, financially, and emotionaly, basically, I was always there. Out of no where, after 5 long years, she says she feels the urge to be single, because shes been in a relationship for so long. I understood this, and let her be, but it was NOT easy at all. About 2 weeks later, she had a new boyfriend. Not only did she have a new boyfriend, but it was someone that I did not like and had problems with. My world shattered and I felt like id never be the same again. I still suffer from whiplash of that relationship, such as from abandonment and anxiety problems, but at least at that point, I focused greatly on my own self image and moved on. You must do the same, and I know you can do it.
sassyash Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 Awww. Im sorry you are going through this. Trust me, you are NOT alone. You probably feel like you are the only one in this world that has experienced this, but you aren't. I am still trying to get over someone and it has been a month already. Just think, if you never leave Mr. Wrong...you will never find Mr. Right. It's their loss, you showed how much you can offer and if they can't accept that, then I myself definately would not want to be with someone like that. How do you let go of someone when they've left you and moved on to somone else within 7 days? He told me he loved me. Two weeks later, he told me he did not. I waited a year for him to get his left together. Now that his life is together he is sharing it with someone else. I know I've written about this before. But the pain is astronomical. I never knew love could hurt so much. This is the worse pain I've ever felt in my life.
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 I agree with Sasyash. It may feel like you lost but it's simply one step closer to the man of your dreams. Just keep that in mind.
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