My.Heroine Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 My ex sent me a couple of emails asking wats going on w. our relationship, wat r ur feelings about me, i still have strong feelings and miss u tonz, but i dont want to be chasing geese and it seems like ur making me sound desperate, i didnt break up with u it was just taking a "break", u make it sound like u want nothing to do with me or even wana talk with me, i cant deal w. this and school (even tho i did when he expected his break and his b.s and could care less cause he was working).....on like that.. So i was thinkin i would ask him if he wants to meet me somewhere to talk. But how do i act? should i act happy and be *enjoyable* to be around, or be serious; b.c i want him 2 c i have reclaimed power over myself and im not a push over. Iv read im not supposed to bring up the breakup or the past yet, he did break up with me, only i called his bluff and let him go. Now he makes it sound like its my fault this is happening. How should i go about asking for wat i want from him and i expect him to change first ( AND SEEEEE IT!!!). He sayz he knos wat he did wrong now but he hasnt answered wat that is yet. I think he wants me to commit to him first b4 he wants to let me in on how he is feeling and thinking. PLZZ GUIDE ME THRU THIS MEETUP!!!!!!! thx guyz x0x0:love:
BearPower Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 your going to hate me for saying this, but just be YOURSELF. Be serious AND pleasant all the same time.... He broke up with you. remind him why he liked you in the first place, through your actions and humor.
Author My.Heroine Posted June 12, 2009 Author Posted June 12, 2009 your going to hate me for saying this, but just be YOURSELF. Be serious AND pleasant all the same time.... He broke up with you. remind him why he liked you in the first place, through your actions and humor. no i dont hate u , i asked, and i thank u for replying! I will be myself its just i dont kno wat to say back to him. Or how to say it. Just as myself really is concerned about our relationship, but at this moment, considering the circumstances, I kno I have to act aloof about it if i dont wana scare him away. So wat im asking is, is there another one of those kind of guidelines to follow in the case of reconciling. There's advise on how to get them back or want to reconsider, but theres nothing that sayz wat to do once uv caught em . Iv casted my line, waited, caught, but now i dont kno how to real him in! NE advice there??????
BearPower Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 If the spark is there, between you both, then it will flow. You wont have to 'think' what to say or do as it will just happen. Do some breathing exercises, positive imagery etc.
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