Author d0ll Posted June 16, 2009 Author Posted June 16, 2009 So does a really good guy friend of mine. He doesn't mean anything by it - he calls lots of girls that - and he knows I am in no way interested nor will I ever be. It needs to be something a bit more concrete than that to be able to tell for sure... hmm, he always texts, IMs me (right away), tells me any guy would be lucky to have me, invites me places, came to visit me at work ..
Island Girl Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 hmm, he always texts, IMs me (right away), tells me any guy would be lucky to have me, invites me places, came to visit me at work .. All of this is something a good friend would do. Has he kissed you? Has he asked you out on a date?
Author d0ll Posted June 16, 2009 Author Posted June 16, 2009 All of this is something a good friend would do. Has he kissed you? Has he asked you out on a date? no he hasn't kissed me, he's recently single & not over it ... we went to starbucks that's about it
loser101 Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 I disagree with pretty much all the posts in this thread. it is healthy to talk about exes and past relationships. of course you don't want to go on about them but when you are getting to know someone they are also becoming your friend. friends talk about pretty much anything. I would hate to think that my man felt he couldn't discuss anything with me. besides, how they treated their exes will provide you with some insight. that came true with my last squeeze, he told me a couple of things that made me feel he was in denial about some issues and lo and behold I was right. if you are not comfortable discussing intimate details of your life (I don't mean sex with other people) then you are not ready for intimacy with that person IMO
Author d0ll Posted June 16, 2009 Author Posted June 16, 2009 I disagree with pretty much all the posts in this thread. it is healthy to talk about exes and past relationships. of course you don't want to go on about them but when you are getting to know someone they are also becoming your friend. friends talk about pretty much anything. I would hate to think that my man felt he couldn't discuss anything with me. besides, how they treated their exes will provide you with some insight. that came true with my last squeeze, he told me a couple of things that made me feel he was in denial about some issues and lo and behold I was right. if you are not comfortable discussing intimate details of your life (I don't mean sex with other people) then you are not ready for intimacy with that person IMO I agree about being able to tell eachother everything I just get jealous lol
loser101 Posted June 16, 2009 Posted June 16, 2009 I agree about being able to tell eachother everything I just get jealous lol Everyone does from time to time but I think it's best to learn to deal with that. Those exes exist whether you like it or not.
Author d0ll Posted June 17, 2009 Author Posted June 17, 2009 Yeah he actually just asked me when we're hanging out
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