Lucky555 Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 I have been getting very short messages from him. He sens me a message, i reply back. I like this, but he isn't contacting me any other way. He doesn't call me or talk via online. Do i need to back off, not reply to him? He just recently sent me a message which was a "cocky/funny" technique as men usually describe it. I think hes trying to get me interested in him, but I don't want to continue with ONE LINE MESSAGES! I want actual interest by calling or talking to me online for a bit. Do i just not reply and maybe he gets the hint that its not going to do for me? He is a shy guy, hes not one to call me out of the blue.
boogieboy Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 So take the reigns and call him! If youre not going to make a move, then you are gonna wait for him anyway. IF he still is not initiating anything after a week, he might not be that into ya. You gonna wait around to find out?
Author Lucky555 Posted June 11, 2009 Author Posted June 11, 2009 i'm unsure about this guy. I have replied to his one line sentence, but now i'm going to back off and see if hes going to step it up. I want a guy who is confident enough to state what he wants and how he feels. If this guy is too shy to step it up then i forsee future problems. I will see what happens. I like his personality though talking, but I would need actually dates to determine if he is someone to be excited about. Actions speak louder than words. I like balance in relationships so i guess i'm waiting. I don't want to rush into this but gradually build up to something.
Trialbyfire Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 Turn it around on him. Start sending him one-liners and when he replies, don't respond after that. Make the one-liners worse, things like "Hi ;)" or ":)"...
Jilly Bean Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 Is he asking you out on dates, or just enjoying the texting?
Author Lucky555 Posted June 11, 2009 Author Posted June 11, 2009 nope hes not asking me out on dates.....i get the sense he is feeling his way around and my interest level in him. Tonight was the first night he turned up the flirting. before it was mostly casual talk about different subjects. Now hes trying to flirt. I will take the one liner advise!!! Very good! I am used to interacting by person. Online is so different!! I know this guy though, but as i said i would have to see what hes like on actual dates. he does live a bit of a distance from me. I'm keeping this light, flirty, and friendly! I just want more from him i guess. Thanks for the advise everyone
boogieboy Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 So how bout showing him a lil interest in text if you think thats what hes waiting for? You want him to be confident enough when youre not? You want him to put himself out there but you wont?
Author Lucky555 Posted June 11, 2009 Author Posted June 11, 2009 So how bout showing him a lil interest in text if you think thats what hes waiting for? You want him to be confident enough when youre not? You want him to put himself out there but you wont? after last night I think he knows I have interest in him. He was more "intense" with his flirtation last night with a one line sentence than ever before. I was actually surprised. I responded and I think he knows by now my interest in him. The ball is in his court now. I see its progressing, but I don't know what exactly hes looking for right now in his life. He is not direct at all and is "acting" very casual and light hearted, so I am too. I'm not holding my breath here just taking one step at a time.
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