Dasilva Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 Im gonna try to keep it short, if anybody can tell me what they think please respond. Right now im 20 and I have been with this girl for 3 years and we also dated when i was 14 for just over a year. When we met it was love at first sight. I love her to death and I think she feels the same way. I really cant see myself with anybody else and she tells me the same thing. I wasnt always the perfect boyfriend and 1 time I was drunk and made out with a girl... every day I regret it... she forgave me and we were together for over a year after that. About 2 months ago she started a new job and things started getting a little shakey, she was arguing with me every day and eventually told me she needed to get away from me but she always thought we would end up together. I had a feeling something was up but I respected her decision. I still tried contacting her after that and she would still speak to me but every so often she would not answer her phone and tell me that she was doing nothing wrong just hanging out with some new friends she met at work. She told me who she was hanging out with and admitted to having some guys emails and numbers but she happened to leave out this 1 guy that was part of the new group of friends. I found out from somebody else that works with her that this guy was always hanging around as well... so automatically im wondering why she happened to leave out this particular guy. She ended up admitting he hangs out with them once they went to the movies and once to the guys house but she always claimed that it was the whole group and she wasnt interested in him at all... just thought he was good looking. I had a feeling something wasnt right, I can just tell. Last night they went to a club for one of the girls birthdays and she said nothing happened they were just dancing in a group. Today she txts me and says that she loves me and she made a mistake and she never wants to hang out with those guys again... i was dreading hearing what she had to say but i needed to know. She told me she kissed him and that it was big mistake. I love her to death and I want to forgive her but I told her that she couldnt hang out with the guy, she says but he hangs out with my other friends from work so what can I do? Im not sure why she would tell me she never wants to hang out with them again and then tell me its pretty much inevitable and that they will. I told her I dont think i could be with her knowing shes hanging out with the guy and she seems pretty confused. What do you think I should do and what do you think she is going through?
NopeNah Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 I think you should RUN and never look back,my friend.. you're still a young guy with ALOT of time ahead of you..don't waste your youth on nonsense such as this...ever!! GO!!let her GO! Trust me..there's alot of girls out there that are a better fit for you..don't talk/text her no matter what..there's no reason to! Let "sleeping dogs lie"(gay phrase)...haha
Author Dasilva Posted June 11, 2009 Author Posted June 11, 2009 I really wasnt a good boyfriend to her... and I wish i coulda been better because I dont think she would have even thought about it. She was never the type to go out really.. for a long time she would be at home waiting for me to call and always wanting to see me. She has stuck with me through thick and thin. I really do think she loves me and for her to come out and tell me the very next day is big. I really think I owe her another chance if I turned around and left then she should have done that long time ago but something made her stay. The only thing throwing me off is that shes pretty much telling me that she HAS to see him cause the group of friends hang out with him.
NopeNah Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 Bro... I am truely sorry you're feeling this way right now..just know, in my expierience with this ****...once it happens, it happens again!
NopeNah Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 and!! I should also add that i have a VERY hard time taking my own advice..as we all do..
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