iBelieve In Symmetry Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 One night I was on LS, feeling okay. But the day before I had felt completely miserable and empty, missing my ex. I read a post from someone and they were explaining how they felt. Miserable, empty, and missing their ex. Then I thought, couldn't we easily be 'emotional buddies'? I mean, here is Person A feeling down longing for some love and comfort, the love and comfort that's not there anymore. And Person B could be going through the same thing. Couldn't they PM each other lovey things, comforting things? Certainly it wouldn't be the same as having their ex saying those things. But it's comforting and reassuring. And you could PM that person the lovey things you're tempted to text or email your ex. Besides, on here we all know we're hung up on our exes and are going through heartbreaks, so there's plenty of understanding. Just a thought. Sounds kind of ridiculous now that I read over it, though.
Soul Bear Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 Not Silly at all. I have made 3 GOOD friends with people like that on here
wow123 Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 Sure we can make this a rebound relationship dating site. There could be alot of money in it. Any 20 something girls from NY? LOL
Author iBelieve In Symmetry Posted June 10, 2009 Author Posted June 10, 2009 Not Silly at all. I have made 3 GOOD friends with people like that on here So you have emotional buddies on here?! I should find one. I broke down and emailed her today. Hello, heartbreak!
Author iBelieve In Symmetry Posted June 10, 2009 Author Posted June 10, 2009 Sure we can make this a rebound relationship dating site. There could be alot of money in it. Any 20 something girls from NY? LOL Haha. Sadly, there's already plenty of those sites out there. Just someone you can just talk to on here every now and then, when you need it. It can help stabilize those weak moments. Nothing serious, 'course.
Jdw_Icequeen Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 No one messages me!! lol I think its a great idea but some of us are to shy to initiate those conversations.
TheBigCow Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 Hey Symmetry, I don't know if I totally agree with just sending positive emails back and forth because really we don't know each other very well and after a while it might seem a little fake. But I do think that talking privately and directly to someone helps alot sometimes. When I first came on LS I suggested anyone who wanted to chat (at the time I was mainly taking to BW007, where did he go?) add me on msn... so that offer is still open to anyone: My address is [email protected] Sometimes it just helps to be able to bounce ideas back and forth quickly. I'm also happy if anyone wants to email me.
Author iBelieve In Symmetry Posted June 11, 2009 Author Posted June 11, 2009 No one messages me!! lol I think its a great idea but some of us are to shy to initiate those conversations. Awww :') You'll be the first I message as soon as I reach 'established member', promise!
Author iBelieve In Symmetry Posted June 11, 2009 Author Posted June 11, 2009 Hey Symmetry, I don't know if I totally agree with just sending positive emails back and forth because really we don't know each other very well and after a while it might seem a little fake. But I do think that talking privately and directly to someone helps alot sometimes. When I first came on LS I suggested anyone who wanted to chat (at the time I was mainly taking to BW007, where did he go?) add me on msn... so that offer is still open to anyone: My address is [email protected] Sometimes it just helps to be able to bounce ideas back and forth quickly. I'm also happy if anyone wants to email me. I'll IM you. Sometimes we just need a small talk buddy.
Jdw_Icequeen Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 Awww :') You'll be the first I message as soon as I reach 'established member', promise! aww ty.. I will be waiting :p:rolleyes:
fabulous_chk Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 Not Silly at all. I have made 3 GOOD friends with people like that on here Lucky for me, I'm one of them! *hugs*
devestated Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 i dont think that is silly at all. I think it is a great idea! I am always open to having more friends to chat with However i am with JDW....some of us are too shy or unsure on how to initiate these conversations. In saying that if there is anyone witty and funny out there who would like to just have a laugh and get our minds off our pain for a bit, or who would just like a chat then i am keen. lol
Author iBelieve In Symmetry Posted June 11, 2009 Author Posted June 11, 2009 Woo! I'm going to have a lot of emotional buddies Now I just have to wait to be a damn established member. -_____-
TaraMaiden Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 Hey Symmetry, When I first came on LS I suggested anyone who wanted to chat (at the time I was mainly taking to BW007, where did he go?) add me on msn... so that offer is still open to anyone: My address is .... I'm also happy if anyone wants to email me. For your own protection and the privacy and security of all of our guests, personal or personally identifiable information such as the following may not be included within submissions to the forum: E-mail addressesInstant message contact information (screen names, usernames, etc.)Telephone numbersMailing addressesBank account numbersPasswords, usernames, or access codes From the community Guidelines I think that was a bad move.....
jlr Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 Not a bad idea at all. Alot of us have similar situations, or feel the same way. If anyone wants to talk, send me a PM and I'll give you my email/aim. I'm a 28 year old male from Cleveland, if that matters.
TheBigCow Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 I think that was a bad move..... heh.. oops. oh well
BearPower Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 So you have emotional buddies on here?! I should find one. I broke down and emailed her today. Hello, heartbreak! It was one of those weird days, IBS- when is your birthday month? Sometimes even the best of friends can not stop your emotions from breaking NC. I think there is a time and a place, and i have 100% positively sure, now reached that place Stay strong in their guys, If you want CLOSURE, and i mean FOREVER, if you want to piss them off and make them despise you, just copy me, and keep in contact!! You should be crushed enough times, over and over, that you literally cant take any more heartbreak at a certain point and you just give up. You give up for YOU. Read the anologys I put in the 'im a fool' thread pg 3. SoulBear
Author iBelieve In Symmetry Posted June 12, 2009 Author Posted June 12, 2009 when is your birthday month? July. Why? I'm a Cancer 100% if that's what you're trying to figure out.
TheBigCow Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 If you want CLOSURE, and i mean FOREVER, if you want to piss them off and make them despise you, just copy me, and keep in contact!! Hmm.. I don't think this is the best plan I hope if you're ever in the same position again you won't follow your new tactic soulbear.
BearPower Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 IBS- im July too, only im a Leo. Rising and falling. BigCow- Not the best plan at all. But at least I am wiser for it.....to little to late tho:P I want my soulbear account back!!
TheBigCow Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 Completely right Bear .. was entirely worth it if you get to learn that lesson.
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